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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
0 points

You have the RIGHT not to speak if you don't feel like it. Sometimes I would rather be mute than have this incredibly difficult condition....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
97 points

I just can't do this anymore

I just can't do this anymore \*This isn't a suicide note I've been doing this my whole life. My stutter is way to severe. I've avoided people my whole life and I've never been able to make any friend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
3 points

First of all like others said, there is no problem with not having a girlfriend. But also, it sounds like you're self-sabotaging yourself by pushing away female friends and hating yourself for the way...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
27 points

In my opinion, nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend should not be the main purpose in life, and it may make life harder when having a toxic girlfriend....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
23 points

How is your life going, mine.......

How is your life going, mine....... I am 25M and stutterer, graduated in masters in mechanical engineering, international student of canada. Finding engineering Jobs, sucks. Working as labour in facto...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
15 points

It’s easier to find justifications to not seek success than it is to actually seek it This is not unique to being a stutterer...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
2 points

god i say this to myself all the fucking time. im 28 and been stuttering since i was 5. all my life ive had this burning feeling inside me that i was destined to be great. and do great things. but th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
8 points

Bruh I be saying that 😭😭I feel like if we ain’t have this shit we would’ve been ahead of everybody...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
73 points

We was nerfed

We was nerfed I feel like we was nerfed sum of us if not all of us got so much potential like hella potential I know I can feel mine but my stuttering limit me in so many ways like I know I’m him I f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
19 points

Stuttering is a another form of hell

Stuttering is a another form of hell Who else feel like stuttering is hell like literally you can’t do nothing literally everything feel impossible especially everything that deals with communication...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
3 points

I’m in my mid 40s but approx 15 yrs ago I had a final interview for a job that i really wanted and had done well in the early interviews (this was the 3rd interview). There was a hypothetical and I ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
3 points

I feel the same way sometimes I hype myself up for something big that requires me to speak just to fail it. all that matters is that you have someone there for you that understands your situation. Whe...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
59 points

Blew it again

Blew it again Had an interview for the career of my dreams today after months of searching and absolutely blew it. I tried my very best to take my time and even started drinking before the zoom interv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

Oof that’s a hard one. I think it’s okay if you *can’t.* If you sit there silently without contributing, someone may eventually point it out, and you can take that opportunity to explain why. It’s not...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

Yeah it can be hard if you’re used to blaming everything on your stutter, because then you assume that if the stutter goes away, other things will magically get better too. Be careful, you may set you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
5 points

Absolutely. And most of the time you will find it wasn’t your stuttering that was preventing you from finding a relationship it will have been many other factors...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
3 points

Outside of slapping my thigh, this is...pretty accurate to my situation. I understand u/_inaccessiblerail means good, but not all problems can be summed up to "you need to get out of your shell" or "y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
3 points

I appreciate your take and glad you found some peace. My view that it’s a curse is that in my 40s I’ve discovered that I am relatively outgoing, easy to strike conversations with anyone but ultimatel...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Now they all helping me everywhere like ordering food in canteen, booking tickets for travel and movies they be like you don't have to suffer we will help you it's a good thing that they are being sup...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

I genuinely feel like most of the time that I don’t deserve friends or a job because who wants to be friends and work with someone who can’t get their sentences out?!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency