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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
5 points

Most people don't understand what's going on, so they're weird about it and might accidentally come off as rude (but they're actually just ignorant). Usually that comes in the form of awkward laughter...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2024
2 points

Thank you for sharing! Gave me hope. Last time I was in a relationship was when I was 19 and turned 25 a week ago and have been afraid to date but after reading this I’m going to get back to it. Thank...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2024
4 points

What a lovely post. Congratulations, mate. Found yourself a keeper by the sounds of it. My ex-girlfriend never gave a hoot about my stutter. Broke up because it had run its course. I've been with the...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2024
12 points

What a great story! I actually just got married to my now husband Dec 18th :) we’ve been together over 6 years now and he has never once commented on my stutter and has always defended me in front of ...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2024
6 points

Yeah, there's hope for all of us. I'm 25 and have been in two serious relationships with the occasionale hook-up here and there. I was born with a stutter and it ranges from mild to severe. It was nev...

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postr/StutterJan 5, 2024
1 points

Some hope for those who worry about getting into a relationship.

Some hope for those who worry about getting into a relationship. I’ve (22m) had a stutter on and off ever since I was 4. I never dated anyone until about a year and a half ago. I would consider myself...

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postr/StutterJan 3, 2024
1 points

When you meet her online, fall in love and break up online bcs you dont want her to know you stutter

When you meet her online, fall in love and break up online bcs you dont want her to know you stutter I finna have an online marriage...

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postr/StutterJan 3, 2024
1 points

When you meet her online, fall in love and break up online bcs you dont want her to know you stutter

When you meet her online, fall in love and break up online bcs you dont want her to know you stutter I finna have an online marriage...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
3 points

As someone who has used dating apps for quite a while, I would recommend not putting it on your bio. Don't mention it until you meet, or have a phone call. 50% of the people in my experience have not ...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Here's how stuttering "positively" impacts my life: \- With any neurological difference or personal struggle, it makes you more attuned to others' disabilities and differences, and you become more aw...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
3 points

Negatively. People avoid speaking to you in social settings and make fun behind your back or in your face. People assume you’re not intelligent (both adults and kids) throughout school, university an...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

I have the same problem. Wondering is someone will make a Tinder for stutterers....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Feel like it's 1000% mentality, mixed in with a bit of luck. My speech therapist also has a stutter, and she found love and started a family. Also know various others with a stutter who are married. I...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

I am far from being happy and cure stuttering but there is little something I can share with you. 1. Do whatever you need to finish a word/sentence. I started making pauses after first letter but nev...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

How old are you? I would just be in situations where you are approachable, since society says it's the guy's job to approach. You can always try online dating but ideally, you want to go to events and...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

I can relate to how you feel a lot. However, I think it is not always just the speech impediment that is a factor in this type of situation. There are many adults who stammer and have wives (or husban...

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commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
1 points

Nah bro, just met an average looking dude the other day who stutters. He smiles every time he blocks, and it’s so charismatic...

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commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
1 points

Anything’s attractive if you’re good looking, for the average looking dude who has to depend on charisma and not being boring to attract women having a speech impediment is often a death sentence....

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
1 points

It’s generally true. Look at famous love stories written for women, such as Twilight or 50 Shades of Grey. Both men are a bit stoic, confident, and dominant....

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
1 points

Thank you for sharing this. I can identify with much of what you say, and it is very painful. I don't think stammering and friendships/relationships, particularly for adults is talked about/ research...

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