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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
3 points

I am rather trying to do the opposite as I get older. I've been a recluse for most of my life because speaking was exhausting and embarrassing for me. Trying to accept myself and break out of that lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
postr/StutterOct 31, 2024
48 points

Anyone find themselves become more quiet and selectively mute as they get older?

Anyone find themselves become more quiet and selectively mute as they get older? I started a new job in July, but I haven't build comraderie with my colleagues. I do my work just fine but I don't ge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterOct 31, 2024
48 points

I hate that I've been so fluent at work lately, now I've set the bar high for myself, again.

I hate that I've been so fluent at work lately, now I've set the bar high for myself, again. This always happens. **Step 1)** Go through a vicious stuttering/blocking cycle. **Step 2)** Come to term...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
8 points

Yes sort of. I’m definitely a covert stutterer. Speech therapy, working on anxiety, and speaking slowly and softly help. If I have an intense emotion, all my skills get thrown out the window. Someti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
10 points

I hate this. Every time I enter supermarket and cashier greets me I awkwardly look away cause I can't say "Good morning" or "Good evening".....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 30, 2024
5 points

Would stammering with shorter hair be more awkward?

Would stammering with shorter hair be more awkward? This is weird question but listen. I (16M) have hair to my chin and I noticed I don't feel that uncomfortable stammering in class when I can't see ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 30, 2024
18 points

A guy at work told me I sound like an AI…and I took that as a compliment

A guy at work told me I sound like an AI…and I took that as a compliment I work at a fast food restaurant. I was working the drive through, and I take a guy’s order. He then drives up to the window a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterOct 29, 2024
14 points

Stuttering nerfed me

Stuttering nerfed me Ever since is was around 12 I began noticing that I have quite a stutter when talking to other people. All though I'm still very young (16) I would definetly say that it has influ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterOct 28, 2024
29 points

I did so bad at this work call today

I did so bad at this work call today I’ve been doing so well with my speech lately you guys but this work call was so bad. Today, this team forgot to include me on this client presentation call so t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
1 points

I used to talk non stop with stutter but recently I only open my mouth when it's utmost necessary life is easy that way...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2024
9 points

Sometimes I'm feeling lazy or just emotionally not there, and I'd rather someone help me out so I can get my food and leave....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 27, 2024
7 points

How do you handle job interviews?

How do you handle job interviews? I'm a successful Technical Writer and general writer, but I always struggle with job interviews as I tend to stutter the worst when talking about myself (I've lost ou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2024
1 points

i used to think this before i started dating, turned out it wasn’t all that big of a deal. just being confident and chill will help you tremendously. use every trick in thr book to mask or minimise yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2024
2 points

I don't do public speaking or presenting much, but occasionally I'd have to speak meetings. I think it's easier in the work setting in general, because everyone should know you stutter, and be tolera...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
6 points

Hey there, I'm also 21. It's a painstakingly slow process and requires a lot of self reflection. I'm not all the way there myself, but in the past couple of years I've gone from being nearly mute when...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterOct 26, 2024
30 points

How can I ever get a girlfriend with this condition?

How can I ever get a girlfriend with this condition? I've come to realize that it would be SO much easier to get a girlfriend if I could just... stop stuttering. I have to dart my eyes around to prope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
4 points

At a certain point for me I was just done living in fear of what other people thought. And the truth is most people don’t give a shit about your stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 26, 2024
10 points

How to get over the fear and awkwardness?

How to get over the fear and awkwardness? I am 21 years old and I stutter. But I don't speak much in front of other people. When asked a question, I just pretend to not know the answer or say a wrong,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2024
2 points

Stuttering isn’t exactly a hidden disability. Anybody who speaks to a stutterer can immediately tell that they stutter, and everybody knows that stuttering exists....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2024
1 points

I fully agree that going straight to public practice is not accessible for everyone which is why I have created a series of attainable steps leading up to public practice. [My experience… and the a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking