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postr/StutterAug 23, 2018
3 points

The Devil I Know

The Devil I Know I’ve gained so much perspective from reading the stories of others on this subreddit, I wanted to take a moment to tell my story with the hope it will help others as well. My stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2018
11 points

I'm 21 and chose the hardest job for me as a stutter could have (and qualified for). I chose to work at Starbucks. Working on the register, bar, drive through, and just communicating with my coworkers...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2018
1 points

I sort of do that too, it’s partly feels like it’s an unconscious response. I hate when you’re stuck on a word and everyone is looking at you. Even if they’re not judging you or anything, I always hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2018
1 points

Recent clinical psychologist graduate here. It's hard to give specific advice since I don't know you or your stutter. Generally though... It will be harder because of your stutter. My program was big ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2018
2 points

I’m 10 days from 21 and in Uni and have the same problem. Especially when it comes to approaching girls. I have lots of reasons to be confident but my stammer really holds me back ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2018
4 points

It's more psychological than physical. I have a slight overbite and I still stutter. That is just my personal opinion of course....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2018
2 points

Hey thanks! I know it's not just the context. I just have more pressure on myself I guess in more official settings. I am pretty nervous about my internship. But I need to start working on believing i...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 19, 2018
10 points

Starting my masters of clinical social work. Anybody in this field now?

Starting my masters of clinical social work. Anybody in this field now? I am starting my clinical social work masters right now and there is a looooot of communication and group work that requires me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2018
7 points

Teen years are hard. Socializing becomes so complex and more important. All that adds pressure which often leads to more struggle. ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2018
4 points

I had to introduce myself to nearly 20 complete strangers at my college orientation in 2015 and had one of the worst blocks of my life. Embarrassed, frustrated, upset - I just wanted to skip college. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2018
1 points

OP, are you having the same issues (slur + stuttering) when talking aloud even when you are home alone? Or is the issue only when communicating with others?...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2018
3 points

I have gone through the exact same thing. Email your professors before hand and let them know that you aren’t comfortable doing this. Maybe go in a little early and talk to them, so they can see that ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterAug 17, 2018
15 points

I start college in two days

I start college in two days I am nervous that on the first day of class there is going to be an icebreaker where they make us go around the room and introduce ourselves. That happened a lot in school....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2018
5 points

I've just graduated from a federal agency's academy. I'm still terrible on the radio sometimes but a few of my instructors know good agents with stutters. Most of my commands are pretty decent though....

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2018
1 points

I agree. Sometimes I say, "I wish it was less complicated." And they might say it's as uncomplicated as you make it. As if positive thinking was the cure. On the one hand, that is a ridiculous thing t...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2018
2 points

You are 21 and many feel unsure at that age. You are not alone. You seem to already have social skills. Continue to network and exercise your social skills. And read those social books too, to find w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2018
1 points

My experience has been that, if I'm angry or furious, my speech becomes much *much* worse. Mostly because I want to say so many things, usually too fast, and in a kind of explosive manner. There's too...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2018
10 points

I'm totally with you on this being frustrating. I think it comes back to a misunderstanding of what stuttering (the disorder we have) is. Sure, people are disfluent sometimes. I trip over my words but...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2018
19 points

Yea I know how you feel.. I told this lady i didn't want to read out loud to these kids because I have stuttering problem. All she said was, Ya I don't like reading too. It's like she didn't understa...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2018
6 points

get a appointment with a speech therapist who specializes in stuttering and go from there. therapy is your first goal ..... practice the steps they teach religiously.... it will help you to overcome y...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment