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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2018
1 points

So could it be that the problem is not stuttering, but selective stuttering? This sounds very similar to selective mutism. I think what Ciductive was getting at, was that if stutterers can speak flu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 31, 2018
2 points

started stuttering after a car accident

started stuttering after a car accident So this past July, I got in a pretty gnarly car accident. I was rear ended by a utility van, and my car was completely wrecked. It's frankly quite amazing that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
6 points

I completely understand where you’re coming from. The one way I differ is that I still force myself to order food, drive thrus, make phone calls... it’s never pretty but it’s better than hiding from i...

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postr/StutterAug 31, 2018
15 points

Conscious of stammering!

Conscious of stammering! 21 year old male with stammering problem. Ever since i turned 16/17 I have become more aware of my stuttering and from there I allowed it to have a profound affect on my ever...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
1 points

> repeating any word/sound/phrase more than 1-2 times is not typical at any age. The other thing that stuck out to me about your description of her stuttering is that she gets noticeably frustrated...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
1 points

If you view this sub and read posts about “what do you hate the most about stuttering “ the number one response is “when people finish our sentences”. That to me is treating her like she’s got a men...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
4 points

I see from other posts you have a speech therapist appointment lined up, that's good. One thing I'll say, I was your daughter's age when I started stuttering. I'm 33 now and still stutter. I didn't ge...

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Seeking TherapyShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
6 points

Take her to a speech therapist immediately! My parents never took me to therapy when i was a child because they thought it was going to go away and now i'm 21 and grew up with a speech impediment and ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
1 points

Please, *please* don't let a stutter prevent you from doing anything. I know first-hand how tough this exact decision can be, but please remember that you are a role model and a champion for all of u...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2018
2 points

For the same reason we stutter worse when under stress. Or the same reason people with something like aphasia or Tourettes can experience their worst symptoms when under anxiety. It doesn't mean it's ...

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Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2018
2 points

Hey! I have a mainly anxiety based stutter though I imagine there is a genetic component to it as well such as the lack of blood flow to the broca you mention. I stuttered as a kid and saw the schools...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2018
2 points

Understandable, once you know its anxiety it's much easier to cope, there are many more tricks to help reduce anxiety out there than ones towards stuttering entirely. Also, don't underestimate how m...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2018
2 points

Yeah I think its anxiety. I have social anxiety disorder too. I've decided not to take anxiety meds, because taking them itself gives me anxiety lol (I get uncomfortable with the idea of being under t...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2018
1 points

Same case with me. When I talk to someone a lot, I become more comfortable with them and talking becomes easier. I think its because when you connect with someone and become comfy with them, they make...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2018
2 points

I did see a therapist a few years back who told me to breath from my diaphragm whenever I stutter, because that'll make talking easier. When I go into social situations though, everything tightens up ...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2018
6 points

Wow! This is a really good experiment, it means that it's not physical, but only in your head. I tried it and it's the same for me. My case is even stranger. Sometimes, when I speak to people that ar...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentExperiential Association
postr/StutterAug 30, 2018
16 points

How do I fix my stutter? Would appreciate any advice (unique case)

How do I fix my stutter? Would appreciate any advice (unique case) Long post here, if anyone takes the time to read it, then thank you so much! I'm a guy who's been stuttering since the age of 5. I'm ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2018
1 points

Last paragraph is my main point. (er, 2nd to last I guess) I love this comment, but also kinda hate it. I read a lot of your other responses to these replies and the conversations going on and I agr...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2018
1 points

Please do it, as someone who was terrified of some of his professors...please. I would have loved it to have a professor that stutters. But really - listen to the other TAs and professors here. I...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2018
4 points

yeah, love those things... Not in all cases but in more formal or professional situations I'll throw out there "I do stutter sometimes, please don't hesitate to ask me to repeat myself or questions a...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment