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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
1 points

It's like giving a cripple the ability to walk and even run but he can't even take a step when he is around people....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 19, 2024
2 points

Stammer and the remote job market

Stammer and the remote job market It feels like my stammer is running my life. Every time I have interviews, I keep getting rejected because of it. During the interview, it sounds like I don’t know w...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2024
5 points

Speech therapy or any program to “cure” stuttering is a scam. As I had mentioned in another post few days ago…first and foremost we need to accept the disability. No other option. There is no pill, ...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideCure Claims / Alt-TreatsHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2024
3 points

While many PWS are taught to take a deep breath, it’s actually harmful to most people who have blocks. The science is that there’s enough air in your lungs to begin talking, and there’s an exchange o...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideCure Claims / Alt-TreatsHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 19, 2024
16 points

I cant live my life how I want to because of my stutter

I cant live my life how I want to because of my stutter So I (m20) Have been stuttering since I was a child. I remember it's starting probably around 7 years old, And ever since there has been ups And...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
1 points

Thank you. One last point is that accepting it is my main issue. My mind just can’t accept the idea of living with this for the rest of my life. I can't make new friends; I only have old friends. I ca...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 17, 2024
8 points

Guys at early 20s how yall dealing with severe stutter? Personally I’m goin insane

Guys at early 20s how yall dealing with severe stutter? Personally I’m goin insane Never understood how life can just fall apart like that, everything being taken from you in such a short period time ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
-5 points

Guys, this is bad. Don’t do it. You don’t defeat stuttering with bravery. You defeat it with wisdom. Such stunts set you up for disastrous stuttering embarrassments that will make your condition wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
5 points

Maybe people are put off by the first sentence but this is the best answer given. People seem to think they can run away from this. I know I've been trying to for most of my life. And what most of y'a...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
0 points

lol, you're a guy almost 100% certain of that man lol. That's a guy problem of "get your shit together, this other person sucks dick for a living" kind of mentality you're not going to be able to shak...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
-3 points

You're fucked, but either way go for whatever. My first job was at Whataburger and the store manager put me on front cashier and drive-thru always lol. Basically, I talked to everyone always and yeah,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
0 points

If you are referring to stuttering that impacts a persons life negatively, It’s not that common, and the cause is known. You learned to feel bad about your repetitions, and in an attempt to stop t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

Children often blame their parents. As we mature, we find ourselves playing the blame game less and less. Blaming their parents is likely what is stopping them from moving forward. Likely why their t...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
-1 points

As I said, missteps. We all make them as parents. Hell, as humans. As a parent, it's a judgment call when to back off and when to push. When you have a child with any special needs, it's that much m...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
6 points

First, you don't know if their motivations were pure. Second, even of they were, and the OP told them to stop pushing but they still were, it is not okay....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
8 points

>If you get unlucky with your parents OP needs to adjust their perspective. Your parents were trying to help. Stop blaming your parents for any missteps when their motivations were pure. When you st...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

I think my problem is not very common. I don't fear or feel ashamed of stuttering altho I used to. Now talking makes me weak, maybe it's psychological, I mean I lose energy and feel tired after talkin...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

My two cents is that stuttering is essentially subconscious habit and a very high stress that you don’t see because you are in stress , you should visit a hypnotherapist and fix your subconscious or s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

“It’s a lot of us that died cause of this stuttering bs which goes underrated but anyways we have to keep going cause we was built for this we just gotta push through and see this to the end”

“It’s a lot of us that died cause of this stuttering bs which goes underrated but anyways we have to keep going cause we was built for this we just gotta push through and see this to the end” ...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

I speak 2 languages and can read 3. English, urdu and arabic. Arabic I’ve been reading and reciting from childhood for quran so I hardy stutter in that. It’s like singing, so apart from a random block...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityFeared Words & NamesStress & Fight/Flight+1 more