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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2018
1 points

I guess I'm in a separate boat to everyone else here when I say it's fine if you don't have to do presentations in the class. The main thing about me and my stutter getting better or worse was confi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2018
2 points

Sure, it might. But I think the real trick would be to get rid of that fear component you mention altogether....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2018
2 points

The eye contact thing helps. It's also a good way to get rid of social anxiety. When you make eye contact with another person, you are focusing less on yourself and more on the other person. And you'r...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
postr/StutterSep 11, 2018
11 points

Presentations..

Presentations.. So apparently I’m going to have 3 (Required) presentations this semester. I’ve always avoided presentations or any kind of public speaking. So I’m really nervous and I don’t know how ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2018
2 points

I started college 2 weeks ago. Community college to be specific and I haven’t talked to anyone at all. Expect telling them what we’ll on when they ask. But that’s it. I too shy to ask them for their n...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

Of course, but if you deal with these anxieties, accepting that you're capable of being a responsible grown-up, might your stutter will ease also....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

Yeah but 17 is around the age when people turn into grown ups and accept responsibilities, change their views, etc. One counselor told me that this expectation and pressure of turning into a grown u...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
3 points

Your friend is conveying something that can be difficult but is important to remember: other people don't see stuttering as a big deal. It's not an impediment to friendships, relationships or any soci...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

That's good! :) For some reason I become more self conscious with age Lol. When it comes to socializing, I think there's more pressure when you're an adult than when you're a kid. Adults are expecte...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

Yeah social anxiety greatly aggravates the stutter. Although one problem regarding this is this: The way people deal with social anxiety, is to force yourself into social situations and make an effo...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

>For example, I often feel that the people I'm hanging out with don't actually like me, or if I'm with a girl, that she doesn't actually like me, or if she doesn't respond to my message she doesn't...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

I think you've answered the question: it was possible to live a normal life until you've turned 17. It wasn't a different world with different people and you're also not a different person with other ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

Sorry for getting back to you so late! No offense but it sounds like you have not admitted to yourself that your stutter is mainly a mental (not physical) aliment! You say you feel like a freak, your ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
4 points

Im sorry you’re dealing with this. I’m pretty much in this exact situation. I have social anxiety too, work on getting that treated first. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 10, 2018
39 points

Is it possible for a stutterer to live a normal life? I am so frustrated and depressed.

Is it possible for a stutterer to live a normal life? I am so frustrated and depressed. Is it possible for a person with a severe stutter to live a normal, wholesome life, just like everyone else? By ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
postr/StutterSep 10, 2018
7 points

I've got an option to stop doing presentations in front of my class. But I don't know if it's really good for me.

I've got an option to stop doing presentations in front of my class. But I don't know if it's really good for me. Hi! So firstly, I wanna apologize for my english. It's not my native language. I'm 18...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
8 points

Absolutely no comparison. Men always have it far harder when it comes to dating. Men are expected to initiate which is very difficult to do so with a stutter....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
3 points

Yes. The anticipation when she sees a guy walking toward her....hoping he is not so she won’t have to talk. Both sides are nerve wracking as hell. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
2 points

My dude, you are misguided. This attitude about dating or relationships while stuttering not being as demanding on a woman has been heavily discussed at many National Stuttering Association workshops...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
1 points

You know what they say about assumptions... My point was, don’t live in misery based on how you think people perceive you....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment