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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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The thing that helped me the most with anxiety is my speech therapist reminding me I'm not weird/strange for stuttering. She told me to just say I have a stutter before starting a conversation with s...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling OthersPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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My stutter used to be pretty severe. I have worked on fluency for a long time and improved a lot, however, the self confidence problems and not wanting to speak haven’t completely gone away. Addressin...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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I mostly keep eye contact even when I stutter. If I completely block I will just tell the person that i have a block🤣...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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Yes, this is called 'Owning your stutter.' I do it to address the elephant in the room, befire the elephant has a chance to step in. Usually I give a quick explanation about it and say its okay, its n...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 17, 2023
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Making a joke or addressing stuttering

Making a joke or addressing stuttering Has anyone ever successfully joked about their stuttering when speaking to someone? Or maybe just addressing it during conversation? My speech therapist was sayi...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
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I told my boyfriend on our second date that I stutter. He was surprised, because he hadn’t picked up on it. But at some point I have had major blocks and because he was then aware of my stutter, he di...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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I vote don't, it's not like you're going to be hiding it if you meet in person. The reason for don't is because you might paint a worse picture of yourself than is true. Usually what you'd want to di...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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100% this! I was introduced to my husband by a friend of mine and about 4 months into us dating she asked if I’d noticed his stutter. I hadn’t. He thinks it’s the worst possible thing and while I unde...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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I’ve never told anyone about my stutter I’ve always let them find out and I’ve currently been with my partner for almost 3 three years and he’s never cared....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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I'm upfront with everybody about my stutter. Do some people react negatively? Sure, but the vast majority care way less than I do. Most even say they didn't even notice until I brought it up (which I ...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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No. If you don’t “announce” it, then he may interpret that as it’s a big, big deal to you. If you don’t, that’s just one more interesting thing he’ll discover about you....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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I'd tell him. If you end up going on a date and start stuttering, you're gonna have to talk about it anyways. If you tell him and he has a problem with it, then he's not worth your time....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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You absolutely should tell him before you talk to him.. it will give him some advance so he understands what's happening and doesn't have to guess and maybe say something off-putting....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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You should definitely tell him. As I see it, there will be two outcomes. If he reacts poorly, then you dodged a bullet. And if he is fine with, he might appreciate you even more for being honest....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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I would tell them, maybe ask if they’ve ever known someone who stutters? Then say sometimes I stutter. Ive learned it’s never as big a deal to others as we imagine it is....

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Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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If you liked a guy, and he told you he had a bad lisp, would you care? Probably not, right? Just tell him....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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My girlfriend didn’t realized I stuttered until about 6 months into the relationship. She said my stutter isn’t as bad as I think it is. Truth is… nobody REALLY cares that you stutter more than you do...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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You should if you like the guy and want relationship with him it part of you so its no point hiding Tell his over text and see his response...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
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I always let people know about my stutter especially when I was a teen. From my experience ,by letting them know early , it makes everything flow alittle easier. Plus , many women are alittle more em...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
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I feel like it’s important to disclose that sort of so they know you’re not on drugs or something. Not even trying to pass a bad comment like that, but I have had that used against me multiple times, ...

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