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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

I did it in most of my interviews. It just became part of my answer to "tell us a little about yourself." If you're comfortable doing it, do it. The only thing I might change is to not call it a spee...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

I dont and I speak with my team and others daily. It is absolutely not a road block. It only was mentally for many years....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
4 points

I mention it. Sometimes I mention it more for them than for me. I also give a couple lines on what they can expect. "Hi, before we start I wanted to let you know that I have a stutter, so you may hear...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
3 points

I got stopped while stuttering amid my valedictorian speech a few years back by some girl yelling “take your time”. She interrupted me, further distracted me and made me even more self conscious. What...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
2 points

I remember when I was a kid that I had trouble pronouncing 's', and would skip it, use some sort of 'f' instead, or just find (or make up) another word to use. That turned into regular stutter later ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

Yeah totally. Even some of my friends were laughing behind the back. What do you think keeps us from fixing stammering? \[sorry if replied late my laptop got broken\]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
2 points

I started fingerspelling my name using ASL, if it gets to bad. Or before, during introductions i’ll ask for a little bit of patience with my speech as there’s not really much i can do seeing as my nam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

I understand it. I used to struggle saying my name too. what actions have you been taking to fix that?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

Hahaha that's a great idea! Only problem is if they ask something not in connection to what's on the recording it'll be a tad difficult to deal with but that's a really nice thing to try especially wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

I honestly recommend trying it! There’s no harming in just having it there. I get frustrated when they don’t read it and I have found that almost all of my delivery drivers read the notes. A separat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
1 points

That sounds so cool but my problem is as I had already mentioned in another comment is that the delivery person doesn't even check such notes as they could simply call instead of reading instructions ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

Do you use an online app like Instacart Or bitesquad? Normally there are “notes on how to deliver” that you can add. I normally give a very detailed sentence on how to get to my unit. When they call, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
3 points

I know exactly how you feel. EXACTLY. But there are workarounds. The average person is scared to death of human contact (which I find ridiculous) and this was true BEFORE corona. That’s why nearly eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
3 points

Do you ever disclose your stutter at the start of the phone call? That could take some of the added pressure off of you and also gives the listener a heads up. There’s nothing to be ashamed about. I...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

Sadly that's the problem for most of the non-stutterers (I don't call them normal people because we all are normal!): they don't understand how it effects us. When I have to make a phone call I always...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
3 points

I know how you feel, phone calls are the worst for me as well. My mom and I have a catering business and slowly I'm the one who has to talk to the customers so every time the phone rings I try to reme...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterApr 14, 2020
38 points

Wish I could be normal

Wish I could be normal I just want to get this off my chest hence the rant. This lockdown is making life so difficult for me because almost everything needs to be ordered either over the phone or dir...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
1 points

Tried 4 different speech therapist but most of them said we mostly get stutters in the age group of 3-8. Habits are easier to form then. Rn you're grown and rewiring your brain will take conscious eff...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
2 points

I do this too except if I’m losing an argument or have to meet a time minimum on a project. Fake it til I can think of something better to say lmao...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
2 points

Yeah i have tried phenibut with good results. I'm just scared of using it too much, I have a friend who has horrible withdrawal. Amphetamines help my stutter also. Have you heard of propranolol?...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesStimulants & CaffeineAvoidance & Substitution