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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
3 points

I worked in a call center for almost two years. At the time, I was decent at hiding my disfluencies by substituting words. The problem was that at this job there were certain very technical terms that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 16, 2020
3 points

Is there a way to practice becoming a better speaker online?

Is there a way to practice becoming a better speaker online? So I've matched with this amazing woman on a dating app, but thanks to you-know-what we're not gonna be meeting any time soon. We're also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
1 points

I actually told my boyfriend a few weeks ago that I can tell he has a stutter. Just the way he tries to correct it or get around his stutter was very familiar to me. He seems to stutter and gets flust...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
1 points

I default to 'what's up?' or 'yo' if we know each other well. Most of the time I combine the two....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

I think this is the definition of secondaries. hers are actually not bad, but they can be very distracting. There are a few things I definitely agree with her on, and some that I really wonder ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
1 points

Hey man, I've dealt with stuttering all my life. The anxiety that comes with not even being able to say my name correctly and even the stomach squeezing are things we have in common. I might not under...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAdvice Requests+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
1 points

Typically goes like this for me: Phone: \*ringing\* Me: FFUCK. Okay. "Hello? Hello?" See? I can say it! Okay. \*answers\* Also me: \*thigh slapping, finger snapping, jumping, physically trying to p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
postr/StutterApr 16, 2020
3 points

Any Stutterers here work at a call center or a job that requires constant phone conversations?

Any Stutterers here work at a call center or a job that requires constant phone conversations? I usually try to avoid applying for jobs that are based over the phone because of my issues with speech. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

British here..... A greeting that I use VERY often is just the word Alright. Just remember to add some intonation to turn just alright into Alright?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

As an aside, it's interesting to see her gestures and movements support her speech, and also get locked up at points, coinciding with stutters. She takes most all of the stutters head on, and all tho...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
1 points

Dude I am like “oh yeah you got-t-t-a take r-r-right turn” and they are like “oh sorry your connection seems like its cutting off, can you repeat that”...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
3 points

I *never* have troubles with an "s" at the start. Meaning a lot of the time I go with something like "So what's up" or "Sup?"...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 16, 2020
3 points

Why is this happening?

Why is this happening? I’m 19. A year ago, maybe two, i’ve had issues in communicating. I stuttered way too much and struggled to talk to others because the words couldn’t come out. I would want to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

Do you order a specific food item because it is easier to pronounce, even if you want something else?

Do you order a specific food item because it is easier to pronounce, even if you want something else? [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/g2b2aw)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

I found out recently that I had a stutter, the reason may surprise you.

I found out recently that I had a stutter, the reason may surprise you. I never knew I had a stutter till about 3 months ago. Right now it is mild but not at night getting off work. I think I’ve had a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med OutcomesSide Effects & Risks
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

Everyone's stutter is different, so you might receive different ideas. But for me what has helped with blocking is giving myself more time to speak. I use longer pauses than "normal" and this seems to...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
1 points

Yes, this is very possible. Face to Face you can guage the response of the other person and adapt your approach. Video calls make this 'feedback loop' more difficult. I used to consciously swap word...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2020
2 points

Is it possible that the decreased time speaking with people has caused you to lessen how much you utilize any speech techniques that you usually use? For example, slowing down when talking, drawing ou...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

Sometimes I'll just tell the jokes really slow. Those who still around for the whole thing are the real ones...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Humor & Community ToneAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

“Just slow down” I stutter when I talk slow too asshole....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger