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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2020
4 points

It's almost the first thing I do, and I always make a joke about it. It clears the path for anything, from periods of absolute fluency to 100% blocks. I used to abhor the phone, video calls, etc, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2020
3 points

Depends on how bad of a day it is for me. Often if I'm having a bad or mediocre day with it I'll say something like "I have a stuttering issue by the way so if you ever have an issue understanding som...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 7, 2020
28 points

Being upfront about my stutter in interviews?

Being upfront about my stutter in interviews? Hey everyone, First-time poster here and would love to get everyone's opinions about a topic. I have/had a stutter since elementary school and tried eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2020
4 points

I have never bothered to fix this problem, because I thought this is just temporary.. I was not able to accept myself that I'm a stutterer. Maybe now it's time to rethink I guess.. I guess there are m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2020
7 points

I’m terrible with advice let me just get that disclaimer out of the way and I am merely speaking from experience. I’ve been a stutterer since birth and something that I have learned in my experience ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
1 points

You literally took the words right out of my mouth. We're in exactly the same boat. I enjoy talking and meeting new people. I like to say I'm a pretty outgoing person when I **can** be. Sometimes I ju...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
2 points

Hi. I just wanted to say you're not alone! :) I've literally avoided relationships my entire life because I was scared that I was going to stutter. I would like to find a new job, but I refuse to look...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
postr/StutterMay 6, 2020
31 points

At some point, we have to buckle down and take control of fear......

At some point, we have to buckle down and take control of fear...... I was always the guy picked as a partner for school presentations. I mean could you blame them? I always tried to shift all the ta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
1 points

That actually makes sense as a theory. My mom got me in to see a speech therapist pretty early, but then my dad put a stop to it later, and I did a lot of my improvement on my own after that, so it ma...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
1 points

Well I began to sutter when I was around 7-8 years old. I was fortunate enough to have parents who didn't "fuck around" and sent me directly to specialists and such. By the age of 13-14 I had most of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
1 points

Interesting. I actually only stutter in my native language (French) . (Nowadays my stuttering only appears during stressful moments after many years of hard work) I never stuttered in English or Sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
3 points

Dude this one time I went to McDonald’s and I could only say that I wanted a burger. Girl was confused and asked me..... “....what.....kind...... of burger?” I literally sank in my drivers seat and dr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
2 points

I stutter more in non native languages too. I think that’s because my vocabulary in those languages is not broad enough to substitute words easily...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
1 points

Focus more on your strong areas be so strong in that area that no one can beat you We stutter only 1% rest is just our thoughts and worries about how someone feel about. Stuttering is your nature a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
1 points

I’m 25, I work in finance here in the UK and since the lockdown my stuttering has suffered massively. This is primarily because we have so many virtual conferences and calls (and this is my weakness...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
8 points

My 2 cents: (1) Same thing happened to me. I bought a used telephone off of Ebay and just began practicing picking it up and answering it (this may sound weird to some people but my background is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterMay 6, 2020
5 points

Let's talk about speech specialists and how to choose one

Let's talk about speech specialists and how to choose one Hello everyone from Belarus! I sure almost no one knows what kind of country Im talking about, but let me know if you're from that 'land') I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterMay 5, 2020
26 points

Cornered at work

Cornered at work I’ve been working as a bank teller for a little over 6 months now. As with most stutters being on a phone causes a lot of anxiety and when anxiety hits I freeze up and can’t get words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterMay 5, 2020
3 points

Stutter in foreign languages?

Stutter in foreign languages? I speak two languages besides English, and despite knowing one of them since early childhood and learning it not far behind my English, it seems like my stutter is much w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterMay 4, 2020
62 points

Sometimes my stutter is just lol

Sometimes my stutter is just lol I struggle when saying my last name. It is a curse that I wish on nobody as it is very common to have to verify your last name in a public setting, with a stranger or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations