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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

I've had a stutter my whole life, and had this same issue, but just reading the title of this post breaks my heart. I was at a magic show once in Atlantic City when I was a kid and he brought me on st...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 25, 2020
6 points

I'm new here - any similar stutterers?

I'm new here - any similar stutterers? Hey there! I've been stuttering for about 16 years, and have been told time and time again that stutters don't normally go away - you just learn to work with it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
1 points

Man I I feel you dude I remember being a kid and not stuttering much at all I didn’t even know I had a stutter then idk why the fuck but I started to stutter more as I got older then people started to...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

Honestly I’d rather them message me knowing I have one just so I don’t have to deal with the rejection of them saying they don’t have an interest in me because of my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
3 points

I've had it too many times..unfortunately. And most of the time after they say something like this I somehow push out my name, tell about my stuttering and then there's this super uncomfortable pause ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
5 points

Hi, first of all I apologize fir my english. My stutter started around that age, maybe 6 y/o. It was very difficult for me to talk, I had to go to speech doctor, and eventually I could "manage it" mor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentEarly Concern & Onset
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
2 points

Something that's helped me is being the one asking the question. I normally just start by saying "I didn't catch your name, I'm Nikhil." Definitely helpful for me. Even if you do get a bit stuck, it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
1 points

Ye man why is it about the name, its always been about the name. I can't say mine infront of people but sometimes it works when I use yours bcs it feels more of a choice when you can say your first an...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
3 points

That's nice! Idk why but in my case I'll stutter even when talking to myself. I just have a really hard time trying to express my thoughts and to translate them into words sometimes just feel impossib...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
3 points

I don't know if this will work for you, but I have the exact same problem and what works for me is saying my first and last name. Most of the time, I stutter when I introduce myself with only my first...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
2 points

Sometimes I alter the pitch and tone of what I am saying ever so slightly. Or pretend I am in a very VERY good mood. (Bonus: sometimes I actually get in a better mood by doing just that). I am all t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

One thing that really works for be is putting words I can say in front of whatever j get stuck on. For instance when I get a call at work I’ll answer with”hello my name is Rudy how can I help you.”. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

I talk really fast as well but I'm trying to slow down. She may have noticed but she just doesn't care, I guess....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

All I can say is breath before starting a word or drag the word like "Heeeellllooo".see If that works. I stutter too. Been trying to prevent my female friend from knowing that I stutter whenever we ta...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
3 points

Wow. I don’t mind trying this at all. And now that I think about it (I’m trying the accent at this very moment btw), I find that I’m slowing down my words and “dragging” them out. Hmmm...you might be ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
7 points

I had a massive hang-up about this when I first started in the military. As an aircraft mechanic a huge part of my job is calling in discrepancies reported by aircrew to the Ops Center over a radio n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionRoles & PerformancePreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
5 points

As other people are saying, do "practice" and "drills" that involve your confidence and speaking with other people. Calling a store or restaurant and asking simple questions about the items on sale or...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJun 22, 2020
23 points

When you have to answer the phone at work...

When you have to answer the phone at work... It’s the worst feeling in the world. Especially when you can’t get the initial greeting out. Or you can barely respond to their questions. Or worse of all,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

The more comfortable you are about it, the more comfortable they will be. If you're not in a good mental space to be comfortable right now, making a joke about it is the quickest way I've found to bre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
3 points

Sometimes I find speaking in a very cool low voice with a somewhat quick tone helps me overcome letters I usually stutter on. If I "prepare" for the difficult word too much, it actually makes it worse...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution