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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
8 points

You have a stutter. That's something you can't change. So focus on the things you *can* change. For me, that was losing weight, exercising more often, eating better, playing basketball, and spending l...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
25 points

It's a hard question... One suggestion. Every time you consider your stutter, stop yourself from doing so. We often let our stutter make decisions for us. We allow it to be a huge influence in how w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
9 points

Hey mate. Your English is just fine, don't even sweat it. Just to let you know there is nothing wrong with you, you're not a weirdo, freak etc, whatsoever. You're just someone who has a stutter and ev...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

True, Right now i am giving this great advice, But i myself hesitate to talk around people. But now i am quite more free and can open conversation and approach people. With little or no stuttering. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I really appreciate your responses! This inspires me to go further than I have been, also do you like challenging yourself socially like I do? - like step out of the zone you're already comfortable in...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I totally agree, I generally do go for it anyways, sometimes it works. But there's an undeniable reality that timing/tone are a huge factor in communication, especially humour, and it rarely comes acr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

That's AMAZING! I aspire to also get closer to this point! Do you think that, growing up you were extroverted but your stutter made you appear introverted? Or, did people expect you to be introverted ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
4 points

Great video! My summary: * goal of presentation: informing us why 'stepping out of the comfort zone' is good - which helps with self-confidence, expanding your world, building resilience and self-age...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

How would you describe yourself, personality wise, now? And also, YOU CAN DO IT! One of my biggest goals is to do motivational speaking one day, all of the traits you just named off ARE who you are m...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
9 points

My true personality is still a goal. I have made so much progress and as long as you have a vision, it’s possible. Take steps, no matter how big or small, towards that vision and personality. Being op...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2024
23 points

What is your TRUE personality like?

What is your TRUE personality like? I feel like I'm one of those people who were unfortunate enough to be given a stutter, but are still themselves. Like, I've been complimented on my ability to not l...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

Hi, you’re not too late ( : So glad you wanna get the recommendations I listed. Some of the key points I took from these courses are basically to not hold your expression back when you speak or act...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

The part that helped me the most was the confidence and support my therapist gave me. It turns out that a lot of what was causing my stutter was my crippling self-confidence and social anxiety. Yes, I...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

Therapy is more like a cope to deal with reality. It works for some people who can handle and control their emotions...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
3 points

If stutter is psychological i.e. "it's all in your head" i.e. if you only stutter when you feel the consequences of stuttering will be high, then nothing external can help you yet because you don't ac...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
5 points

Agree! As described in those in the videos (and as we all likely have experienced), there are often layers of emotion and self-stigma that are difficult to unpack in moving away from feeling unable to...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
4 points

I just let go of worrying that I'd be judged. I used to complain here on this subreddit alot and I just feel like it's a waste. You going to have to just push regardless of what people think of you. I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
2 points

Be yourself, f what others think of you, they dont know you, they dont live in your shoes, they dont know shit about you, how is what they think THAT valuable, be yourself ! People will like you more ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
3 points

You can tell them ofc but the less you give it importance the more you'll be yourself and people will tend to like you way more, that's what I found....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
2 points

>When you learn to let go, your voice starts easing up, you remember to breathe, and you don’t mind using long, blissful pauses when you speak. Bro ive been trying to do exactly this for soo long. ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift