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postr/StutterJul 8, 2020
82 points

Everything I hate about stutter.

Everything I hate about stutter. I hate stutter. I hate that I cant order something I like because of shame and end up ordering the first thing on menu that sounds easy to say. I hate that I cant ...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
2 points

What a great idea. Go for it and enjoy yourself! It could be really helpful if you self-disclose at the beginning, saying something like "I have a stutter, but that's not what I want to talk about..."...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Second this. Instead of editing out every stutter, own it. Smile about it, joke about it. If you get a bad block or make a funny facial expression, ofc you can edit it out but in general I’d say go ‘...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I hate making phone calls because I stutter so badly on the phone. But just keep doing it you will get more comfortable and more fluent....

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
2 points

Make the YouTube channel own your stutter be proud of it. Who cares what the haters have to say....

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I used to be as well. Used to spend a lot of my time editing and I just stopped caring....

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
2 points

Hey man i stutter and i do have a you tube channel !! you definitely can do it and what i do is edit the parts out and redo parts where i stutter, what helps is making a script and then sticking to it...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

Lucky for you, there’s something called editing. You can edit your videos to make it seem like you’re speaking fluently by cutting out blocks/stutters, though you will need a PC to do that. Lmk if you...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
3 points

I used to stutter really bad in loud situations like bars, concerts, etc. Would be really awkward when I'd lean into a dude's ear to say something, have a block, and just be standing there a couple in...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
3 points

Just do it!!! I started 2 years ago and I'm having so much fun. Who cares if you stutter!!!! Go have fun!!!...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
4 points

I say just do it! I just started streaming on YouTube and I screw myself daily with something! As long as you’re having fun that’s what matters!...

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postr/StutterJul 7, 2020
26 points

I'm nervous about starting a YouTube channel.

I'm nervous about starting a YouTube channel. I really want to start a YouTube channel because I really love talking. But I can't even get through a video successfully because of my stutter. I always ...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
5 points

Just don’t give up or get too down on yourself my friend... You can always try singing your words if you’re having too difficult a time!!!...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
5 points

You are very right. I think there is so much shame, embarrassment, fear, guilt, anger, denial, and hopelessness built up from childhood when you stutter that you don't want to stutter, even though in ...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
3 points

Im not a doctor or anything like that but, from what ive heard, you just gotta stop thinking about stuttering, just accept it. Speak clearly, open your mouth wide and concentrate on every sylab. I h...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I tend to avoid phone calls, but when I really have to, I will psych myself before picking up the phone and calling to boost my confidence. This usually works but hey it doesn't matter if I do stutter...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2020
2 points

I'm a mild stammerer, I first did weed 3 years ago just to see if it helps with my anxiety and stammering and yes it did work I could speak with ease but now it's just opposite I get more self conscio...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2020
1 points

When I did smoke (or drink), my stutter generally got better. I do not think that marijuana or alcohol had any affect on my stutter, just my overall confidence levels, and that’s what made my stutter ...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2020
2 points

He still stutters, it's just a lot less. It's not a cure, he just figured out he doesn't need to be worried about it or something. So now when he has disfluencies, it's no biggie. He's probably still ...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2020
1 points

I am having the exact same issue at the moment. When I use to type I was very articulate and knew what I wanted to say and was able to put it into words but for the past year I've been having trouble ...

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