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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2024
5 points

Haha this is funny. And at one point true. Then I reached “fuck it” and made them listen and get stared at by me....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
3 points

I agree with you it's ridiculous, in that, avoidance techniques might become a negative coping mechanism. I think, for some individuals it can still be useful to swap words for example to prevent trau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
3 points

Yeah sure but also I can pull out the ole "did I stutter?" And it's way funnier than any non-stuttering person saying the same thing. You gotta find strengths...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
1 points

i don‘t think my stutter affects my personality or limits me in life, at least not in the way others here describe it. i don’t care about validation from others anymore, all i care about is if i can l...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
1 points

Interesting take on my question, you make some good points although I have to disagree with you on two things: 1.) "You only think you would be an outgoing boss because you never had the chance to."...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
3 points

EVERYONE here thinks they would be extroverted and outgoing af. Yeah thats what i expected. Yk everyone knows the importance of something they dont have. Those who have it dont know its importance. Yo...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
1 points

Avoiding it and other similar situations will only make you stutter more in the long run. Just go and do your best, it is what it is....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
3 points

Yeah exactly! You go to explain, you then stutter more, and you totally lose the audience. I consider myself humorous too. When my brain does not cause me to stutter, I make people laugh, a lot. But ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
2 points

I think I’m kind of an outgoing person. I always have thoughts of “what if I could do this” or “it would be cool if I could do that” ….but that’s If I didn’t have this stutter. But I do…and it’s tur...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
2 points

See this is why I feel like a large majority of PWS are not introverted at all or not THAT introverted. What you described is essentially a high social battery that is craving to be fulfilled by inter...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 11, 2024
5 points

People always think I am mad at them??

People always think I am mad at them?? Any context where I need to explain anything to anyone the other person takes on obvious feelings that I am yelling at them. I need to speak in short clear phras...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I think I would be a lot less shy. Not the most outgoing person in the room, but definitely more confident, funnier and more charming. A lot of the time I find that being with other people (people I c...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
5 points

THIS IS ME! I always think of how different my life would be if I could speak with fluency. All the missed jokes, quips, flirtatious remarks, repartees and comebacks I've never said because they all r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

Im definitely an ambivert lol, sometimes I’d be rlly extroverted and sometimes I’d just wanna chill by myself I also notice my stutter might fluctuate with my confidence levels...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
2 points

But, if you don't mind could you answer my original question about your 'true personality'? And how stuttering has affected it?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

True, Right now i am giving this great advice, But i myself hesitate to talk around people. But now i am quite more free and can open conversation and approach people. With little or no stuttering. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I think I'm a lot more extroverted than I ever expected to be. I was homeschooled growing up and very socially isolated (I wonder if that made my stutter worse from lack of practice talking to people....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I mean I'm kinda outspoken person today, but as compared to my childhood, I'm less outspoken. Yes, I'm still conscious about my stuttering development.....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

Yeah, some people thought I was secretive and oddly quiet, but others thought the exact opposite, as I would often break the ice and liven up conversations. It depends on the severity of my stutter: s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

Interesting! Well I really appreciate your responses to my thread and I hope that you can continue to break out of the false introverted shell that stuttering places so many people in. You seem like a...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception