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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
4 points

I'm still a young man (18) so I can't tell you how to deal with the corporate word but I can tell you something I read from a guy in this community. They guy said he tells everyone he talks to that he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
16 points

No Acting, Opening A Startup, LIFE

No Acting, Opening A Startup, LIFE Hey guys, it's my first post here. I'm 17 and I kinda have a severe level stuttering. It all started when I was 4. My father noticed that I couldn't even able to say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

I never tell females I stutter they just discover it on their own and most of them be like "Kutlo you stutter!!" It really fascinates them and they kinda like it no one really has a problem with it..M...

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postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
27 points

Stuttering and corporate job

Stuttering and corporate job I have always stuttered a bit but until the age of 25, my stutter never held me back from any aspect in my life whether it was socialising, dating, career etc. I basically...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

Just don't make a spectacle out of it. I haven't read other comments but I know some people seem to recommend to have a serious talk about it, say how you feel about it, why it happens. If you do that...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

Yep, ordering at restaurants is certainly a non-favorite of mine lol. There are often times where I’ll sorta start to say something then point to whatever it is, even if it’s not a picture. Sorta hard...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
3 points

Hey I never actually got to do this, but in college I came close to asking my professors if I can present with earbuds in to play soft music because I knew it would help me. That’s why I always have A...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

I like to make it a joke. "So, I stutter. But its my one and only flaw." Usually gets a laugh or two and then we move on....

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
3 points

Been there. It sucks. I once had a guy straight up stand up and leave a talk I was giving as part of a job interview. I know it sounds crazy, but it might help to talk about it right at the start...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
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postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
16 points

My stutter got worse, can't accept it

My stutter got worse, can't accept it Hello, how you guys managed to accept your stutter and come out with it ? I work at the International school (Nord-Anglia), not a teacher, but i still have to ta...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Honestly just say it. You'll be way more relaxed and at ease not thinking about it. Most people really don't mind it or aren't as bothered by it as we are. By not telling him you'll end up constantly...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

Stay strong! We've all been there and we know how you feel. I will try to give some advices from my personal experiences so i hope it helps you i any way :D First, ofcourse you should never give up ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
3 points

Apps to stop stuttering

Apps to stop stuttering Hey guys I wondered if any of you use apps to prevent from stuttering as much as you usually do. If you guys do please tell me about them I wanna try some out !...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Just Gotta be upfront about it. It's a bit of a cringy thing to say but It's a part of you and if they can't accept it they aren't right for you....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
46 points

I just had a job interview - it was awful

I just had a job interview - it was awful I have master degree in Counseling and I am looking for a job for almost a year now. I just had an interview and I stuttered a lot. I could not express myself...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
3 points

Honestly for me it was just saying "btw i have a stutter and i cant do anything about it, if it happens just listen and keep eye contact and wait." Never has my stutter bothered anyone i dated...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

I used something like: "sometimes i get nervous around pretty girls, and when i get nervous i can stutter more. So if that happens, thats all that is". They did not care! We've been together for...

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commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
1 points

As far as I encountered into this topic, I see my stuttering started off with listening to someone stuttering and then repeating (mocking), then It got ingrained in my brain and I did more of it and i...

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postr/StutterAug 29, 2020
8 points

I need advice for transmitting urgent information.

I need advice for transmitting urgent information. Trying to talk fast while under pressure in a pathetic attempt to inform someone of really important and urgent information. I couldn’t get a single ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2020
1 points

Same here. I always stutter when i have to read text. I'm more fluent if i say something from my mind...

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