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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2020
6 points

My opinion, do the assignment. Imo it's not offensive because you're trying to understand what being a stutterer feels like on any kind of a first hand basis. I don't care how naturally empathetic som...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Personal StoriesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterJan 18, 2020
9 points

Freaking out..

Freaking out.. My boss has travelled and I suppose to do a presentation on his behalf to the CEO! I am freaking the hell out cuz I i obviously stutter .. I am thinking to have Valium or alcohol righ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 16, 2020
18 points

Going on a date tomorrow night. Any advice to lessen the anxiety?

Going on a date tomorrow night. Any advice to lessen the anxiety? Met this really cute girl online the other day and our chemistry over text chat is really fun and lighthearted. We're going out tomorr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
3 points

At this point, speech may not even be your main problem any more. I don't know you, but from what you've written, you're so tied in a knot with anxiety and self-medication, you'd still be miserable e...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
3 points

I mean, I feel like this type of thing is more a function of them just feeling awkward/not knowing what to do...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
28 points

When ever i block people start guessing random and sometimes the most absurd thing and starts laughing between themselves while im still blocked and wishing someone would stab me right then and there....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
10 points

Just found this sub reddit, finally got a place to rant about my test score

Just found this sub reddit, finally got a place to rant about my test score https://imgur.com/dDekBTa So I recently took the TOEFL exam, and bombed the Speaking section – no surprise there. Only prob...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2020
3 points

Today I had give a presentation without a paper to read or reference from. It was so horrible, I could barely put together 2 words. I even got stuck on words with my eyes closed...im sure people thoug...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2020
5 points

In my experience I seem to speak better when I am called on because it surprises me. When I know I am going to be called on my heart starts to race because I am fearful of stuttering, and then I do it...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
9 points

Do you ever have "bad weeks"?

Do you ever have "bad weeks"? I've started a new job a couple of days ago and since then I've only had bad days. My stress and my anxiety is high and I can't barely talk to my workmates, which leads m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
13 points

I meet fellow stutter at university

I meet fellow stutter at university Hello folks, so yesterday, we had new transfer student meeting and professor wanted us to introduce each others, so i was last guy, students started introducing the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 15, 2020
13 points

Excellent communication skills requirement in jobs

Excellent communication skills requirement in jobs Currently looking for a job as I've finished uni and almost all jobs require you to have excellent communication skills. Its really frustrating when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2020
2 points

I know I’m kind of late of this post but I’d like to share my experience with stuttering and the devils lettuce. I used to be a heavy stoner. I’m still a stoner, just not as heavy. When I first starte...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Harmful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2020
7 points

I know how you feel man. I was bullied back in high school for my stammer. Was made to say long difficult words so they could laugh. Because of that I have an anxiety over speaking. Even to my girlfr...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2020
2 points

what makes stuttering really really annoying to me is not knowing what's causing it ( ik it's a neurological disorder but that's not what i'm talking about ). We have good and bad days, i still can't...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2020
1 points

Yeah I wasn’t sure if they were actually laughing about my stutter or not. Maybe somebody cracked a joke in the middle of my presentation, or were they only laughing at my PowerPoint slides? Who knows...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2020
2 points

Hey I know you're feeling like shit. And it's a terrible feeling because you couldn't have done anything to really prevent this from happening. Despite that I will say that how your classmates and you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2020
1 points

I have the same problem: vowels. my second language and most spoken language for me is German, which is kinda known for hard pronounced letters and words. I'm still searching for the best trick but on...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2020
2 points

I'm so sorry! in 4 years ago, I did a presentation with 2 classmates. I already narrowed my part more than once. and even then I couldn't find synonyms to all words. so I was there, spoke 3 words and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2020
2 points

But stutter is the cause of low self esteem and confidence. So its like going in circles isn't it?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception