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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
3 points

Thank you for providing us with articles and your summary. Speaking of text what exactly can we do? When I have stuttering I feel a lot of negative sensations in my body. I'm trying to understand wha...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
19 points

“Unlearn stammering” as if it’s something that was taught to us. “Just don’t think about talking” “You feed your stutter by stuttering” The whole of medical science has dropped to their knees!! Tha...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
3 points

**TL;DR summary:** **Unlearn stuttering** *Make subconscious*: don't try/think, speak immediately, natural, spontaneous, don't wait out speech, don't pre-evaluate, without effort, without willpower, ...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
2 points

You're definitely not wrong that that may contribute a lot - however, speech therapy is also a lot more effective for children, which would not apply to your reason. I think it's somewhere in the midd...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
2 points

I just don't think the theory works. Most people develop stutters before they experience much social interaction and the brain changes so drastically over the first couple decades of life it's totally...

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Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
8 points

I'd say that it's probably more likely to just be social if it's someone that's going to "grow out of it". I doubt that it's that way for many adult stutterers at all....

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Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2024
7 points

My theory is that for some people, stuttering is a completely social/mental behavior. For others, it's neurological. A good, but not foolproof, way to know the difference is if you stutter while by yo...

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Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

Great reply! You said: "*For example there's been many times when I'm preparing to talk to someone, I say what I want to say 5 to 8 times under my breath and I will say it perfectly each time but as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

You stutter more if people can hear you. If 'people hearing you' is your trigger, then let's ask the question: Why does people hearing us trigger stuttering? (obviously, the answer is very unique to ...

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postr/StutterApr 30, 2024
9 points

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Covert and overt stuttering: Concepts and comparative findings" (2022)

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Covert and overt stuttering: Concepts and comparative findings" (2022) This is my attempt to summarize [this](https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/artic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

Not really true.. I LOVE everything about me besides the speaking. Thats kind of attacking me and not constitutive bcs it wont help me love myself. I don't expect that from someone who stutters. You...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
2 points

Tenho 20 anos e também gago. Bom de ver um irmão aqui! Para responder a tua pergunta, acho q temos de aceitar a nós próprios. Nós sempre pomos nos próprios de baixio e sempre pensamos no negativo. Eu ...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
2 points

Exactly! I think most people who stutter have a lack of mindfulness regarding which inner things is stopping themselves. You pointed out, that you have actually reached the point, at which, you can ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
19 points

I'm sorry that happened to you; it's something I'm sure everyone on this subreddit can relate to so you aren't alone! People who don't have a stutter take speaking fluently for granted and will never...

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commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
3 points

Overcoming stuttering isn’t about overcoming the stutter itself, it’s more about overcoming the lack of self-worth involved with it. Having a stutter and the experiences along with it make us believe...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
1 points

Don’t listen to these virgins not giving u advice in the comments. Listen up brodie. The fact she asked u to take her out means she’s interested in you. It’s in ur hands now. Yes it is a date but what...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
1 points

I get what you’re saying in terms of self esteem but It doesn’t matter if you care or not, your stutter is still well and truly present regardless of your feelings. Stuttering is very complex and is n...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
5 points

It happens. But honestly just be yourself and don't mind it. you'll be surprised there's many girls that appreciate the vulnerability...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
2 points

The solution for me personally is to not give two shits about what people might think of me when I stutter. Because as another guy has said in this thread, sometimes you still stutter even when you're...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
5 points

The term "Overcoming Stutter" would mean different for each individual, because as you mentioned there is no cure or a one size fits all technique for fluency. For me it is - Not affecting me when I ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking