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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
1 points

you don’t stutter because you avoid all unpleasant worlds. it’s good for short time like interview but on the long path it will ruin you, because of that you feel terrible. try to stutter like normal ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
2 points

Your parents are unfortunately not very intelligent, I am sorry for that. You can explain them Maybe, that there is no scientific proof that reading aloud would significantly help you in a Long term....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

I have routinely struggled with foreign languages in school (#asl in college) or speaking another language when I travel because of stuttering. I always equated this to a muscle memory/ practice thing...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 30, 2020
14 points

Being Authentic as a Stutterer

Being Authentic as a Stutterer Hey guys, today I went through a series of interviews for potential jobs, that actually went very well. I stammered a few times, but nothing noticeable or earth-shatteri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

I suggest that you do the steve harvey techniques in combination with talking to strangers on social services. It works well. I tried it...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
5 points

Yea a feel you man, reading outloud is often a set back move. I'm assuming you are more fluent when you by yourself or talking to a pet, maybe you don't stutter at all. And that just proves you don'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
3 points

Unfortunately, I do. Normally, I used to live in another city due to my college but I had to come to my home city because I graduated. I am looking for ways to return to the former....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
2 points

Agreed, for me it was a combination of methods and reading aloud was one of them. Sounds like you're not a fan of your father, do you live with him? Distancing yourself (for now) may help with your s...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
3 points

There are many reasons we can give for not being good at something. Stutter is one of those reasons, but not in as fundamental a way as you seem to think. We usually have to build up experience with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterSep 30, 2020
36 points

My parents seriously believe that reading aloud will cure it

My parents seriously believe that reading aloud will cure it I'm a 23 year old guy who has had it since I was three. Since I graduated from college in July, they started to press me harder than ever t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
6 points

i dont stutter but joined this sub cuz my 4 year old son recently started, so i enjoy reading people's experience as it gives me hope. nevertheless though i happen to be a psychotherapist, and not tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2020
6 points

Talking online first is da way, for me, once I get to know someone online really well, I stutter a lots less when meeting them in real life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterSep 29, 2020
37 points

I have no idea how to talk to girls with my stuttering

I have no idea how to talk to girls with my stuttering I'm a freshman in college and I have a moderate to severe stutter. With COVID, it's really hard to meet girls. I have a few classes in person but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2020
8 points

If I didn't mention I had a stutter, I don't think I would have passed any of the interviews I had. I try to turn it into a good thing in my answers - how I have a stutter has made me to want to work...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2020
7 points

When he referenced the speech writing technique in the King's Speech I was so sure he was going to say "The democratic presidential town hall (fuck fuck fuck!) is on CNN tonight."...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2020
1 points

Same. Really can't count how many times my mum walks away when she asks a question and I'm trying to answer. I don't bother answering her if I think I might stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2020
2 points

"Can't stutter when you don't speak with people " guy tapping head meme...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2020
2 points

Avoidance is really bad for your stuttering, I 100% agree with you that facing it is the best thing to do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2020
2 points

I have not overcome it , of course. But the change is major!!!! Like I can actually talk a lot more fluently? 😳 When I ‘m ashamed of it I can barely talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 26, 2020
14 points

mini-vent and a question about stuttering.

mini-vent and a question about stuttering. this is kinda messy, cause im not putting too much thought into writing this, sorry! is it just me, or does speaking to people who dislike stuttering cause ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+1 more