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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

It's so frustrating because I'm even stuttering in moments i should be relaxed in and enjoy... really brings me down :( I used to be funny and make people laugh, and I evaluated myself so much by thos...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
11 points

I'm a fellow athiest and I stutter. I have come to learn and accept that God had nothing to do with my stutter. My stutter is simply a combination of a nurological disorder enhanced by social anxiety....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
3 points

Amen!! When I chose to live my life in spite of my stutter I became a stronger person. I got through law school. Stop making decisions based on your speech. You are much much more than just a person w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
3 points

When stuttering is no longer the most important thing you think about when you speak you will improve....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

great question. i'm an adult now but thinking back on when i struggled most, i would plan my words ahead more and have anxiety more before speaking but my core was always a boy who was extroverted. th...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
6 points

I'm pretty sure it's at least significantly due to my stuttering. Although perhaps less so in how often I speak, but in what I say when I do. When writing I feel like I 'speak' much more freely, usin...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
29 points

Sometimes I think I would be A LOT funnier if I didn’t have a stutter, there’s so many punchlines or jokes that I just don’t say because I know I’m going to stutter and it won’t end up being funny....

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

Well, I think the easiest way to think of it is that we are in multiple ways, depending on what we're doing. There's no singular way that we are in (or are not in, as it were). This might actually be...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 28, 2020
11 points

Just got off a phone interview

Just got off a phone interview Interview was 11 minutes but felt forever. I had some pretty bad blocks & I switched my previous jobs around because I couldn’t say the name to the most recent one....

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
3 points

i feel exactly what you mean. for over a week now i've been whisper talking with practically everyone. i was getting better then out of nowhere i couldn't say a word without stuttering horribly. the m...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

I stutter barely at all when I read out loud. I think it's because it's a more controlled setting, so I'm mentally prepared and take it really slow. It's the sponteneity of conversation that throws me...

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Situational VariabilityAvoidance & SubstitutionFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
2 points

The cashier at the bagel place near me thinks my name is John since it's easier for me to say than my real name haha. There's been a few awkward moments when friends join me there, though......

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

I absolutely get it. I block on my birth year during medical interviews - to which I say uh a lot while I wait for the block to release - to which people think I’m lying lol. I’m a firefighter who h...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

I was wondering whether if I changed my name if I would still stutter? Might give it a go...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

This is a very stressful situation believe me I have been in that situation countless times. I still sound like ummmmm h-h-h-iii my my my n-n-am-m-me is Aaaaa-llllll-issssss-ooonnn. You did what you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
6 points

I also give an alternate name in case I can’t say my own name, which I have a really hard time with as well and I don’t want to deal with the whole looking like an idiot or the “ha ha they forgot thei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
14 points

So weird hearing another person saying exactly what I've gone through.. Stuttered when I was young. It went away throughout school. Then it came back in college and is with me still. If I'm meeting s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 27, 2020
73 points

I made up my own name... but then I forgot I did

I made up my own name... but then I forgot I did I’m a 21yo girl and I’ve had a stutter since I was 4. It went away for a period (I don’t know how but I damn wish it would come again), and then when I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

I also get uncomfortably anxious right before speaking into the phone which causes really bad blocks. I've generally tried to slow down and breathe through it but nothing has really seemed to work....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

Isn't there rather a big difference between "improve" and "become borderline non-existent"? People can't answer two different questions in one answer. ;)...

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