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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2020
3 points

Blocks are the worst. It comes off extra humiliating since at least with a stammer everyone can see I'm trying to spit it out but with a block I just go silent like a weirdo. For blocks the only co...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 3, 2020
5 points

Stutter carrying into new language learning

Stutter carrying into new language learning My stutter and stammer/blocks are moderate to severe. I've always been good at picking up on languages and memorizing.. but of course the cruel joke is the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterNov 2, 2020
2 points

Advice to overcome blocking?

Advice to overcome blocking? hey everyone, i've been stuttering for quite a few years now and have always seemed to have a problem with blocking. the only ways i can get some words out is by swearing,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2020
1 points

I’ve had this issue my whole life, at an early age I would read a lot... I learned synonyms for the most common words... whenever I KNEW a block was coming I would be able to inject an alternative wit...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2020
5 points

Trauma is not always proportional to a "wound" inflicted. It's due to a wound going untreated. In my experience, stuttering seems to come from a place where we feel like we have to hold back. When you...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Trauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
postr/StutterNov 2, 2020
9 points

I am overthinking my stutter, AGAIN

I am overthinking my stutter, AGAIN Hello! I am 21 years old and I stutter. I have stuttered for a long long time. When growing up I always thought it would go away or at least it would get much bette...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2020
1 points

Learn more words and synonyms so you can always have options to say the best one without stuttering. That also helps you not to focus on your words but on your overall message that you want to convey....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2020
2 points

I never stutter with my best friend i dont know how but i can control my stutter with him but when im talking to my brother parents or teachers i stutter and sound like a typing machine...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 2, 2020
23 points

Developing a stutter as a teen?

Developing a stutter as a teen? Hello, before all of this just know I am not very informed so I most likely won't be using proper terminology and I won't know all of the acronyms So, when i was about...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2020
1 points

Wait, you can't just bullshit in the speaking section? I'm starting put with my prep and assumed it's like sat, you just show your language skills even if what you are saying is bull...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 31, 2020
5 points

I need help with anxiety, I think.

I need help with anxiety, I think. First of all I just wanna say this is really out of character for me, like I usually don't go out of my way to ask for help but I think I need it. But uh if you guys...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2020
1 points

I also talk super fast when I’m nervous which causes my to stutter, which is why I try to calm my nerves by taking deep breathes every other sentence and taking my time speaking. Another method that h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 31, 2020
3 points

As a non-native English speaker I stutter mostly when I am talking in English. Any tips or suggestions to improve fluency and not stutter?

As a non-native English speaker I stutter mostly when I am talking in English. Any tips or suggestions to improve fluency and not stutter? Hi there, I am from Bangladesh and my native language is Be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
3 points

Yeah your right if they have the same qualifications and similar work experience, why would someone hire someone with a stutter for example in a sales/customer service role. If I could hide my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
4 points

I talk pretty fast when I’m nervous, and it’s hard to calm myself down. Talking slower doesn’t really work for me. My stuttering hasn’t been this bad in months, I haven’t even thought about it until t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
1 points

Something that I've found that's super super helpful- record your order into the voice memo app on your phone, by yourself so you don't stutter, and then when you're at the window, play the recording ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAssistive Devices
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
2 points

I experienced that exact scenario once in a club and once gaming online with friends. Kinda scarred me and I haven’t attempted any jokes or punchlines since. Unfortunately I’m known as a quiet person ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
1 points

Fast food is garbage so I never order at drive-throughs. The additional benefit being not having to stutter to those faceless intercom voices. All my food is groceries and I don’t have to talk to any...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
4 points

I usually don’t give a fuck about the states anymore it’s been 7 years since I stutter so I’m out of fucks to give, so I just order if there are too many blocks I just say “sorry i have a stutter” and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2020
1 points

In my 20ish years of experience having a stutter, I’d say it depends. I’ve had periods of time when my stutter is good and/or I have adapted to my environment well enough to work with it. Stressful li...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution+1 more