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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

Consult a speech therapist, It can be cured if you are younger as told by speech therapist I met recently. It was too late for me but hope it is not in your case. We can also improve a little in stut...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

I agree with cicadas\_stammering! Circumlocution is an omnipresent thing. The thought before every sentence, every word I say: Can I say it that way? Will I stutter this? How can I replace it to prev...

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postr/StutterDec 9, 2020
10 points

My story

My story I have been stuttering since grade 3. I was a little kid wondering why sometimes I can’t say certain words or even my name I didn’t know what was wrong with me ;then my stutter disappeared up...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
3 points

Obviously won’t help everyone, but I used to block so much on the “h” of hello. Now I kind of answer the phone with a tuneful “yello!” No one notices and it means I can answer the phone semi confident...

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postr/StutterDec 9, 2020
42 points

The phone is a nightmare

The phone is a nightmare I am so embarrassed.It is difficult for me to say hi on the phone nowadays,but flashback to 2-3 months ago it was nearly flawless.How can I communicate more efficiently on the...

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postr/StutterDec 9, 2020
6 points

My story

My story I have been stuttering since grade 3. I was a little kid wondering why sometimes I can’t say certain words or even my name I didn’t know what was wrong with me ;then my stutter disappeared up...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

“the fear of it keeps it alive”. Yeah that’s pretty relatable. The fear/nervousness always makes it much worse. Whenever I forget I stutter I can be almost completely fluent. My situation is probably ...

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postr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

Here,again.

Here,again. Hello guys! I think i am posting here very often, but this really feels place where you all know what i am talking about and seems like you get me. I am feeling so down, i dont remember ...

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postr/StutterDec 8, 2020
8 points

Adult onset stuttering

Adult onset stuttering Hey guys, I've started stuttering basically out of the blue a year ago at 22 years of age... I don't really know the cause of it, It could be drugs, medications I take (Valium a...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

Try going surname name instead of name surname, i mean just swap the order and do not think about saying it, if you do you will block, works for me and it's quite simple trick, if not that you could t...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
5 points

As someone who was heavy stutterer in childhood and somewhat fluent now, i get ya. I don't think about it often, until I get into convo with someone, and if it's for the first time its like alarm in b...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

What have worked for me in these situation is , introducing myself like this , for instance if my name is norma jeane , then introducing myself like , First name Norma , last name Jeane...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

As a person with block stutter, but without social anxiety (btw, i recommend u all to find the passsion that will make u aware that human life is meanless, in my case it was phycisc, it really helps),...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

What regularly worked for me was to add the letter a before my words. Like say your names John, “aJohn” but don’t pronounce the a all the way or very very quietly or quickly. You can master it so no o...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
1 points

My speech therapist in high school always called it "circumnavigation." Maybe their faulty terminology is an indicator of their skills as a speech therapist. After all, I didn't experience any positiv...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

Circumnavigation is happening always. I often don't order what I want at restaurants and opt instead for what's easier to say. I find myself abbreviating or shortening things in the strangest ways...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

Indeed, avoiding people and conversations is a big thing such as saying hello to someone etc... they probs think im a bad mannered guy. Im just scared...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
5 points

I would say, at least with mine, I kinda create a persona of being quite or a jerk to avoid speaking even though that’s not my personality at all. Also avoidance is common with us. Also keep in mind t...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

i agree lol if i say something stupid fast i can sometimes overcome it but if i hae to think too much usually i just give up in the end people seem to lose interest the longer the stutter carries...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
3 points

Im 35, and ive learned to piggyback on my friends to become more social. Same at work, i befriend few coworkers, and sortof use their social skills to put myself out there. For me the key has been to ...

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