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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2025
0 points

Did your dad stutter? Mine didn't. Neither parents. Or siblings. A cousin of my Dad's had something similar but our stutters presented very differently. I'm 42, I chose to not have children or find a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterJan 2, 2025
15 points

How can I get married? 'My son will be the same, I don't want to give hell to another one because of my cursed genetics'. how should I deal with this?

How can I get married? 'My son will be the same, I don't want to give hell to another one because of my cursed genetics'. how should I deal with this? Title. btw/ sorry for my English...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2025
2 points

Yeah, it can get really awkward, especially if you're anything like me and you try and hide in the background to avoid falling at the first hurdle of saying your name if you don't know the person....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2025
13 points

>Trust me, when you avoid many things, you will suffer psychologically This is 100% true! >Try to find a way to get rid of or at least reduce stuttering Never give up on this. Just because you have...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2025
4 points

I got two sons and none of them are showing any symptoms. Nobody upstream in my family tree either. Just me that got this life-long curse after being mauled by a dog when I was 3. The thought of not...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2024
3 points

This is shit is constantly destroying my life. I can't blame anyone for this not even my parents cuz they didn't knew what problem this is going to cause when i grow up. Now I have decided to take on ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress
postr/StutterDec 29, 2024
6 points

Deployed

Deployed Ive had a stutter since I was born and before I deployed the stutter was at a 5/10 but during and after its popped up to a 8 or 9/10. I know stress can be a factor but I was hoping once I ret...

Causes & VariabilityTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAssistive DevicesHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterDec 29, 2024
0 points

How to fix stutter. A guide on how to fix a social stutter. This is also known as a developmental stutter. I had one for many years and finally figured out the cause of it along with how to fix it. I have so far tried this with 6 people I know with a stutter and had a 100% success rate.

How to fix stutter. A guide on how to fix a social stutter. This is also known as a developmental stutter. I had one for many years and finally figured out the cause of it along with how to fix it. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterDec 29, 2024
34 points

How to deal with the loneliness that comes with stuttering

How to deal with the loneliness that comes with stuttering I am lonely….. can’t keep up interesting conversations…also I look gross when I get stuck….. I can see that in people’s faces and attitudes ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 28, 2024
27 points

Is there really no way to control or completely stop your stuttering?

Is there really no way to control or completely stop your stuttering? I have so much anxiety about 2 things. My stutter and the person my stutter makes me. I keep thinking to myself that i would be ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterDec 26, 2024
14 points

I’m in a cage

I’m in a cage I feel like I’m trapped in my own body because of my stutter. Especially as someone who is naturally extroverted and as someone who values beauty - and desires to make my speech and my e...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2024
1 points

Thanks for the response. I texted her an explanation but long story short she's not interested but was kind about it. She didn't really address the stuttering. I'm going to find a nice hole undergroun...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterDec 21, 2024
23 points

Anxiety and stuttering just led to one of the most humiliating nights of my life

Anxiety and stuttering just led to one of the most humiliating nights of my life For the past few years I'd been working on dealing with my stutter, anxiety, and on general self improvement. I thought...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
1 points

you should not you will feel more lonely instead you should go and see a movie alone or do something you like you will still regret but you will regret less and enjoy being alone it will help you in ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
postr/StutterDec 20, 2024
4 points

Best way to seek ADA Accommodations?

Best way to seek ADA Accommodations? Hello everyone, I am looking to get certain ADA accommodations at work because of my moderate speech impediment. I have been able to work decently so far....Recent...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Access & RightsHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
16 points

This is a complex topic. My comment will only touch the surface. My 7 year old has 2 speech impediments, one of them being a stutter. For years, I convinced myself I never wanted to have kids bec...

Emotional ExperienceParent & CaregiverIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyParent Emotions & GuiltAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
2 points

one for speeding and driving unlicensed by a state trooper and the other was for driving with no insurance. i got warnings both times because of empathy for the stutter which is a blessing but i hate ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyParent Emotions & Guilt
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
14 points

i often feel like an extrovert trapped in this body. although I'm not sure if not having a stutter would have helped me not have so many insecurities, it certainly would have helped with social anxiet...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterDec 20, 2024
12 points

am I the only one or is there anyone else ?

am I the only one or is there anyone else ? whenever I see people chit chatting either useful or crap, though I won't participate in the conversation since I can't speak fluently which if I did might ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
2 points

Wow thank you for this. I wish my mom or my teachers had stuck up for me. They would just ignore it and hope it would go away, but it only got worse. When i was 9, a male teacher said in front of the ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+1 more