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postr/StutterJun 28, 2020
61 points

I never want to speak again

I never want to speak again I just can't deal with all this stress and anxiety. I keep blocking for such a long time just for one word. Happens at home, at work, at school, when I'm ordering food, I j...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 28, 2020
2 points

Advice

Advice I am new to stuttering. I've read through a lot of posts here and a lot of people have been stuttering since childhood. I recently (a little less than two years ago) acquired a stutter due to m...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
1 points

hmm...i do have social anxiety i have actually noticed decrease in stuttering when i am drunk , its fascinating...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
1 points

wow that's so good for you i do put myself in awkward position, like i wantedly ask doubts in class to make myself comfortable But still a spontaneous conversation with strangers is still a big hur...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
1 points

I’m curious about trying psylocybin for my stutter. Not as a cure but the drug does alter brainpaths and so might target the emotional side and the anxious feelings of knowing that you’re about to stu...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Psychedelics & MicrodosingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
1 points

Eeeeeeeee (softly, gently prolonging my first syllable) as I ease into what I want to s-s-say (fake stutter, so I can stop trying to NOT stutter). It’s all a lie. Stuttering really does NOT preven...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
2 points

Also try speech therapy with someone who mostly treats stutterers. Things that helped me were releasing a small amount of breath first, prolonging the first syllable, and doing a little fa...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
40 points

Because with the other afflictions, the drugs prescribed target specific areas known to cause the disease. Nobody knows for sure what causes stuttering so they can't really target anything specific. P...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
2 points

I can relate a lot to this as well I think, but English has more of these sounds for me than my native language. Also it might be because I mostly speak English when being evaluated at school and in c...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 26, 2020
7 points

I really need help bad

I really need help bad My stutter is not bad at all but it is ruining my life even tho it is so small. It’s always the first word of the sentence and I always think about it to much to the point where...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2020
2 points

I feel like cursed. I can live with it sure but i fear what other ppl think about my stuttering. But no one has mocked me yet...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2020
1 points

Thanks for sharing. Everyone that responded to me have their own unique story. Stuttering just affects everyone so differently! But the general theme I got from everyone responses seems like anxiet...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2020
1 points

My stutter started around the age of 5. I didn’t have speech therapy until I was 7 and stopped going at 10. I was nearly 100% fluent when I left speech therapy (I have a mild stutter) and I felt a lo...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

Honestly I’d rather them message me knowing I have one just so I don’t have to deal with the rejection of them saying they don’t have an interest in me because of my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

this happened to me! v intense stuttering for 3 days and then milder for a week or so until it disappeared completely. i think it was due to high anxiety/stress at the time but i never followed up....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
5 points

personally i have a very hard time talking to people about my stutter. it’s not that severe but still something that definitely bothers me and gives me a lot of anxiety when it comes to dating. I have...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
2 points

Awesome to hear that is improved since your 20’s. Thanks for sharing! I’m also glad that it seems to get better when you’re comfortable. My wife thinks our daughter stutters when she is anxious but...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
2 points

I started stuttering in kindergarten. I went to speech therapy for a while and they said that it would eventually go away. Their tip for my mom was to never mention the stutter to me. My stutter was m...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & SubstancesCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
3 points

I started stuttering around 6 or 7. It was mostly on and off til I was 13, and then it became consistent. I’m about to turn 20 now. The severity of it (on any given day) depends on a ton of different ...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationOnset & Life-Stage ChangesAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
1 points

I'm also a 14 year old who lives in England. My sister has a medical stammer, i dont, i have an anxiety stammer so some words are worst than others like my fucking name, its all so fucking complicated...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names+1 more