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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2018
6 points

I am 47 and people still make fun of my stutter, however, when they do, I give them a history of my stuttering. It usually takes about five minutes. I used to think folks thought I was stupid but I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2018
14 points

I attend meetings of my local NSA (national Stuttering Association) chapter. There I have met doctors, professors, teachers, financial advisors, vice principal, retired vice president of a company, so...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
1 points

Personally I wouldn’t like that. Wouldn’t want to be categorised into a ‘stammerer’ category, however helpful it could be....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
1 points

Yes probably not the right path to go down. I personally hate to think of a stammer as a disability, even though it basically is. I wouldn’t like to be put into a different category because of it, a ‘...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2018
2 points

Speech therapy would be able to help you. And as you get older the more "accepting" you will be of your stutter. If you can't do speech therapy there are some useful techniques posted on YouTube that...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
1 points

I wouldn’t say avoidance is the goal...but instead of causing anxiety because the student has no choice but to do a speech I think it’s beneficial to give some control to the student. I started by giv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
3 points

You should know all of this is completely normal. Most stutterers have physical manifestations, and eyes closing/twitching is probably the most common. I agree with natabean that disclosing your stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2018
3 points

A good speech therapist will work on the mental aspects as well as physical. Acceptance and mindfulness were/are important to helping with your speech....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2018
9 points

Everybody experiences some amount of dysfluency. This is why for people with a mild stutter others claim to not even notice it. Dysfluency is normal, and is commonly tuned out. You call it a failure ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2018
1 points

I really agree. I actually [just posted about something similar](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/8kkw7j/my_strategy_ive_been_using_for_quite_some_time/) before seeing your post. You just got...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 19, 2018
32 points

My 'strategy' I've been using for quite some time now: be very open about your stuttering!

My 'strategy' I've been using for quite some time now: be very open about your stuttering! I'm 22 now and I've been stuttering for pretty much my entire life, but my 'level' of stuttering has always f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2018
2 points

Every. Freaking. Time. My name starts with my most difficult sound. I don't think I've ever been able to say it fluently. But yeah, I just stutter my ass off when I say it without caring much these ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 18, 2018
9 points

A bit of hope <3

A bit of hope <3 Ok, so I hear and read a lot of times about us stutter feeling too shy to talk to girls etc. My experience has far different and here is why. I used to think the same that my Sutte...

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Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2018
1 points

i remember her saying that stuttering is apart of me so why would i care .....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
5 points

The more you accept stuttering as something apart of you, the easier you’ll find confidence in yourself. Insecurity can only drive people away. Be and accept yourself, it’s much more attractive to peo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
1 points

You're actually in quite a privileged position: You've got another stutter _right there in your home_. Stutterers can gain a lot from exchanging with each other :)...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
2 points

A lot of these posts popping up about stutters holding people back in life recently eh? Like most people say, and ill say it again, you cant let it get to you. I dont know how bad yours is, mine has...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
11 points

I’m about ten years older than you, but your story is very similar to mine. I’d love to tell you that there’s always the chance that you will somehow cure your stutter down the road, but realistically...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
2 points

So glad I'm not alone on this. I'm trying to own my stutter and not care, but it's a mindset that I'm so far away from. ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2018
1 points

Caring less about stuttering causes the anxiety and stress to go away. So you stutter, but go on with life without even blinking an eye....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment