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A bit of hope <3 Ok, so I hear and read a lot of times about us stutter feeling too shy to talk to girls etc. My experience has far different and here is why. I used to think the same that my Sutter would prevent me from getting girls all the same shit we tell ourselves before a presentation, all the same stuff in social situations, that negative bullshit. The thing is I date very often and meet girls at bars and the sorts (Not being a braggy ****), the only thing I cannot stress enough is chill out and give less of a fuck, the more I care or the more I try the harder I fail, which is so frustrating but caring less and obviously being a bit charming, looking after yourself. If you are a Sutter then you are a Sutter keep your chin up and pull through, I have never not even once had a girl not talked to me or took issue because of my stammer. We are the worst on ourselves about our speech, we try so hard to be "Normal" when I stopped trying to be a reflection of other people and compare their speech to mine, I stutter less and even when I do I don't care. This is even more so In my case having an identical twin who does not Sutter, and as with twins are compared for everything. Just sharing my thoughts, I am I did come across as cocky but you got to act confident and you will be. Also, here for you my fellow brothers and sisters <3