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commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
2 points

That is a great idea, what you do! In my talk, I wrote a part about AAC, the different tools that exist, and the importance of valuing different ways of expressing oneself, whether they are spoken or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
1 points

Pretty idealistic view you got there. The folks hiring do care what I have to say, and more importantly how I say it because it’s to stakeholders sometimes. But I’ll keep the tips in mind, thanks. 😅...

School & WorkCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
1 points

Big smile and feel comfortable with them even if you stutter a lot in the moment.  Bigger fun loving chill smile.  Theyre all human, it is what it is.  No one actually cares what you say. If you know ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
3 points

Hi, call me in private, I also face this problem. I'm having a lot of problems at work because of this....

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
1 points

Honestly I just have a lot of confidence in myself. I talk a lot. I just finished law school and I want to be a litigator. I had really good parents who told me I’m smart and capable and have a lot to...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
1 points

I also always get way more stutters in an online meeting. The easy low hanging fruit I sometimes take is to just talk so fast that the stutters don't have time to develop into a block. But then my sen...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
1 points

I appreciate that mindset and have applied it in the past. But unfortunately, unconscious bias in hiring doesn’t really subscribe to that mindset and it’s affecting my chances of switching to a new jo...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
1 points

Reminds me of my first job where I worked as a software engineer in a small company. I had to answer all incoming support calls from clients. It was a nightmare! Work at it, you'll be able to slowly...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
postr/StutterJun 25, 2025
6 points

Stutter getting worse

Stutter getting worse Hi, I’ve had a stutter all my life but sometimes, it feels like it’s gotten better to the point it’s barely noticeable. But nowadays (I believe it’s due to added stress and work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
2 points

Excellent, I am really happy to hear you had a positive conversation. Well done for sticking it out. I went through similar pain at my current company. Ten years and 4 promotions later, things are goi...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
2 points

Talk to your manager. Describe your challenges and set out some objectives. There is a fair chance your responsibilities may change to ease the transition. If you quit now, what happens with your ne...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
1 points

To be completely frank... I would've never allowed myself to be put in such an uncomfortable position if I new I wouldn't last at least a year and gained valuable knowledge.. seems like you took a job...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
2 points

In this job market where it’s hard to get any job, I recommend try to stay in this job for as long as you can. It’s completely okay to still feel very anxious and worry, it’s how you’ll slowly be able...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/FlightFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
1 points

I work in medical records and have to be on the phone everyday. I would say to challenge yourself and stay with the job . The more practice you get, the more fluent you get. You can do it :)...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
1 points

Completely understand what you mean by that last statement. Quite frustrating not being able to pin down exactly what makes you tick vs what makes you tic, so to say. Honestly not sure what advice I c...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
3 points

have you discussed this with your employer? they might be willing to make some accommodations. I'm sure they recognize you have a stammer, unless you are covert of course but have. a fear/trigger of c...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
0 points

This is why I'm seeking guidance. I think I'm screwed either way. I want to accommodate, but sometimes it isn't a "I want to choose to interrupt", but what if I'm in a rush? My point is sometimes the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
3 points

I sympathize with your predicament. Unfortunately, there will be people who discriminate against us because of our stutter. It sucks to accept, but it's life. But please take my advice from a 40 some...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
6 points

I understand your pain. I wanted to be a music teacher for the longest time, but I’ve come to realize my stutter and tics get in the way. I do okay doing private lessons, but I had to give up that dre...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
1 points

I'm in the US. I've had this thought before, but I'm afraid of a couple things: 1. I'm afraid that by the time I get a response from HR or whoever about accommodations, that the job may already be ...

School & Work
Employment & CareerAccess & Rights