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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

You will be able to speak at your natural pace. You set aside 15 mins during the day to practice the metronome pace. The rest of the day you can speak normally. In the video, he also mentioned addin...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterMar 8, 2024
9 points

Working as a receptionist with a stutter

Working as a receptionist with a stutter Note: I don't work in reception full time, I'm admin, but I cover reception when the receptionist is on lunch, is off or has appointments. I've had a lot of ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I’ve seen some people with severe stutters do beer well professionally. I think people in a work environment are generally tolerant of a stutter, and if they’re not then the company is shit. As for ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

yes, this is exactly my experience too. same with being quiet for a long time, it feels like my speech flows better first thing in the morning. had a date with a girl at a somewhat loud restaurant las...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

It's just as simple as saying "I have a stutter." Be prepared for the person to get really embarrassed and apologetic....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
3 points

Whenever first meeting people tell them something like “hey nice to meet you I have a stutter so I’ll take a minute to say things”, yes I know you won’t say that everyone but if you say it so that peo...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
10 points

Seeking advice

Seeking advice Hey guys, often when I block it’s truly silent and it causes people to say things like “oh you really had to think about that” and it really hurts my feelings. I don’t know how to stand...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
4 points

Just do it after you introduce yourself and say that it will not have any effect on your job capabilities....

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
13 points

At the beginning of the interview/phone call I say something along the lines of “I just want to let you know that I have a speech impediment. If anything is unclear or you need me to repeat anything, ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
7 points

I just disclose my stutter and my frowning tics. So I say that when I pause and frown, that is not me trying to give dirty look, that's just me struggling with words in the middle of my sentence and y...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
6 points

Better get that preamble out before your first block or contortion… It’s not like they won’t notice…...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
28 points

When I interview I keep it really casual. As soon as I sit down I say something like, “oh and JUST FYI, I do have a stutter. It’s not because I am nervous, it’s how I talk.” I have never had a nega...

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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
9 points

What is the best way to disclose a stutter in an interview?

What is the best way to disclose a stutter in an interview? ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 25, 2024
106 points

My GF makes me feel good about my stutter

My GF makes me feel good about my stutter I (17M) recently got a girlfriend we’ve been together for 5 months now and she loves my stutter. She noticed it and asked me questions early on about it, beca...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2024
3 points

>Look people in the eye as you stutter. Don't avoid words or sounds, go ahead and block on that hard consonant sound. This is why you see the phrase "Stutter Proudly!". This is exactly what those ted...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2024
3 points

Simply acknowledge that you have a stutter. Do not try to hide it because that's stress, and stress is unnecessary and unsustainable. I've been there and done what you're doing a few years ago. Tell y...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
1 points

I told my parents once and they said I was being paranoid. They don't notice but tbf nowadays I barely talk properly anymore so it's natural. I went to an ENT and he told me I only had GERD, he used t...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & BullyingNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
1 points

Your saying that he'll think your making up an excuse? Well he'd only think that if he doesn't know much about stuttering. If he knows it's something you can't help doing then he won't be saying that....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersGenetic & Family FactorsNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
1 points

Agreed, best to be open. I have to call a lot of doctors at my job, and when there's several seconds of dead air on the phone they get impatient. Just a quick casual, "excuse me, I have a speech imped...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
1 points

I'd probably be prepared to inform the doctors you have a stutter and it has nothing to do with some sort of lack of knowledge about the diseases. If you can't hide it, might as well make sure it isn'...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution