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postr/StutterDec 11, 2020
3 points

Can a childhood stutter come back in adulthood?

Can a childhood stutter come back in adulthood? I was in speech therapy for most of elementary school for a variety of mild speech impediments, including what I'm guessing would be called a stutter --...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterDec 11, 2020
5 points

College and stutter

College and stutter I’m currently 12 grade(online school). Have to go to college next year and I’m absolutely scared. One of the main reasons I’m currently on online school is because of my stutter an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 11, 2020
12 points

Stutterers in high-power jobs?

Stutterers in high-power jobs? Hey I’m a second year in university, trying to sort out internships for next summer and trying to decide what kind of career path I want to go down. I study languages (h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
33 points

Stuttering being associated with cowardice and anxiety is pretty annoying too...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 10, 2020
4 points

I just started my stutter journey. Do you have any tips?

I just started my stutter journey. Do you have any tips? I was recently diagnosed with PANDAS, an autoimmune disease where my brain is attacked in response to a strep infection. This puzzled my doctor...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2020
6 points

Fellow stutterers, what do you do when someone makes a joke of your stutter?

Fellow stutterers, what do you do when someone makes a joke of your stutter? I am 19F, had a stutter all my life. After 19 years of age, I still don’t know what to say when I stutter and someone repea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2020
26 points

Has anyone got any tips on how to not let stuttering take a massive toll on mental health?

Has anyone got any tips on how to not let stuttering take a massive toll on mental health? Okay so I’d say I have a moderate stutter. I’ve come to terms with it in the last six months or so but now an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2020
3 points

Has anyone got any tips on how to not let stuttering take a massive toll on mental health?

Has anyone got any tips on how to not let stuttering take a massive toll on mental health? [deleted]...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterDec 10, 2020
1 points

Idk why but when I talk with girls I stutter more, than when i talk with boys

Idk why but when I talk with girls I stutter more, than when i talk with boys [deleted]...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
1 points

Just my experience but I overthink everything and make up scenarios that will probably never happen. I can end up in a downwards spirals and maybe picture my wedding day and wonder if I will be able t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
1 points

I think it’s mostly about confidence and fear of embarrassing yourself. I went through phases in my life where I stuttered more in my primary language, because I felt like I was expected to speak well...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
3 points

I don’t know if this will help but this way of thinking about it has helped me in my blocks: Blocking is like an unconscious protective mechanism. Somewhere along the way we developed a divided intent...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 10, 2020
6 points

i have a job interview in about 2hours from now, i am more scared than nervous.

i have a job interview in about 2hours from now, i am more scared than nervous. besides being in nervous werk having a job interview after being jobless for almost 8 month i am scared i will stutter l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

I agree with cicadas\_stammering! Circumlocution is an omnipresent thing. The thought before every sentence, every word I say: Can I say it that way? Will I stutter this? How can I replace it to prev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
1 points

I also have only speech blocks.. Maybe that's why I usually don't stutter around friends and other people I don't know, but stutter around family because I think of them as being better than me, more ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
3 points

Appreciate the feedback.When I record myself I can speak perfectly,but the last month or so on the phone has been apocalyptic.I always think to myself:how can I be confident right now?I am having 30 s...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 9, 2020
42 points

The phone is a nightmare

The phone is a nightmare I am so embarrassed.It is difficult for me to say hi on the phone nowadays,but flashback to 2-3 months ago it was nearly flawless.How can I communicate more efficiently on the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

“the fear of it keeps it alive”. Yeah that’s pretty relatable. The fear/nervousness always makes it much worse. Whenever I forget I stutter I can be almost completely fluent. My situation is probably ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
4 points

This happened to me when I was 15. I stuttered and all of a sudden I had this deep fear of it and did everything possible to hide it. There are a lot of theories about the causes of stuttering so we ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 8, 2020
8 points

Adult onset stuttering

Adult onset stuttering Hey guys, I've started stuttering basically out of the blue a year ago at 22 years of age... I don't really know the cause of it, It could be drugs, medications I take (Valium a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more