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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
1 points

I was placed on some psych meds and my stutter has mostly gone away. Now I have much more confidence so when I do stutter I handle it much better; instead of just clamming up and getting frustrated. ...

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Helpful Med OutcomesAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
2 points

I used to be a recruiter after I finished university. It was never a goal of mine to go into a job that involved being on the phone but I kind of fell into it. My boss was supportive because I have a ...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
6 points

I work in commercial insurance sales and have struggled with my stutter since before I started in this profession. Before this I sold cars and before that worked in general retail sales and customer s...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2019
9 points

I work a cashier/customer service job and something that has helped me a lot personally is making sure that everyone I work with know that I have a stutter so that my coworkers are understanding and h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterApr 30, 2019
3 points

I can relate to this. I have turned 30 this year and I had pushed nice people away in my youth because I think I am unworthy. Upon reflection the thought of myself as lesser competent than others is...

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commentr/StutterApr 30, 2019
1 points

have you tried any therapy for speech and counseling for self-esteem issues you describe? is there anything that helps your speech even slightly by a bit you know it works for you? self confidence is ...

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postr/StutterApr 30, 2019
17 points

Wanted to share my positive success with everyone here!

Wanted to share my positive success with everyone here! Speaking from my own experiences here, stuttering can be something really isolating. It makes me hesitant to talk to new people, hesitant to pla...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2019
1 points

In my opinion, you've done a noble act :) It takes balls as a stutterer to do these sorts of things, just remember that!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
1 points

After many year of stress and embarrassment I realized that my stutter works as a some kind of a social filter. It repels not all but a good portion of unpleasant people. I never had too many friends ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2019
4 points

Stuttering is not a disease. It's not a dopamine dysfunction. it's not like schizophrenia. It is not related to personality. It is a communication disorder. It is a part of who you are and the sooner ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2019
2 points

I agree. It’s impossible to cure a stutter, so I think the main part is acceptance and simply putting yourself out there. Ordering food has become much easier due to the fact that I’ve gone outside my...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2019
25 points

Everyone is different. Some people just get used to it and stop caring, for others it naturally lessens. The majority of people who used to stutter and are now mostly fluent didn't do anything magica...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2019
3 points

Great idea. I create frequent lists of things to be proud about to increase my confidence because, like you, my level of fluency is highly correlated with my level of confidence. I am a successful a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterApr 26, 2019
1 points

Indeed, it was a really fun evening, which made me happy for the following days. I was suprised that i didnt stutter, normally in turkish i stutter like hell because of the hard pronunciation of the w...

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commentr/StutterApr 26, 2019
2 points

I guess every stutterer is different; confidence helps me a lot. I'm glad you love yourself and are a confident person, though....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
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postr/StutterApr 25, 2019
9 points

Tell me something great about yourself!

Tell me something great about yourself! Hey everyone, I realized one of the most common issues I've seen with fellow stutterers is a lack of self-confidence. This really affected me in the past, and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
3 points

I think the most important thing to remember here is that you are not a stutterer. You are a person that happens to have a stutter. This is a crucial distinction, as your identity is not solely define...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
1 points

Yes it can be pretty depressing at times but I feel like I'm most fluent and feel good whenever I ignore my speech and concentrate on other aspects of my life. Honestly, I wish I was able to stop m...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideOverthinking & MonitoringFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2019
6 points

Well, you shouldn't look at the empty half of the glass, when I think of myself as underprivileged I remember that there ones are who would love to stutter if it meant that they can speak. Go to thera...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2019
1 points

Good stuff, thanks. I really identified with the Speech Judge part. I am constantly searching in others' body language, expressions, etc for information on how they view my speech. Unhelpfully, app...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride