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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
2 points

That’s my biggest issue too. If I’m put on the spot I get nervous. Biggest tip I can give is have confidence, even if it’s fake confidence. Also know that once you get older and are at a place in your...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
3 points

Perhaps the classes will help you in other ways, which is fine of course. :) "Nerves" is a factor. How much of a factor it would be for you, and what might be done about it, we wouldn't know. If you ...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
1 points

Im 15 years old and my parents already paid the 7 classes so I cant do much, feel like those classes aint going to help much but its already done, at least the people in the class are really supportiv...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2021
2 points

Definitely. I think it’s the weight of expectation that does it, I’ve noticed that my level of social anxiety is the biggest determining factor for how much I stutter, with my focus on my speech being...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2021
2 points

I had the same fears going in, but I informed the examiner of my stutter just before the speaking test and he was so cool about it. It will be you and the examiner alone in a room with no external pre...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 4, 2021
1 points

IELTS exam

IELTS exam So I'm currently getting ready for my IELTS exam, and my speech is so bad I don't know what to do. It's not that my English is bad (although it's far from perfect) I just can't get the word...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 4, 2021
4 points

Returning to school

Returning to school Hi, I'm in England and schools have been closed since January, but they are re-opening next week. I haven't had any face-to-face interaction with anyone outside my family. Can you...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2021
4 points

Hello 😀 Oh yes, the "best" thing about our speech is that we can easily say something like "what's it called", but can't say some other damn word or letter. I'm here just for a couple of days now, ...

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Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2021
3 points

I'm sorry that you had to go through all of this stress but I'm glad that you had good teachers who dealt with the situation in a sensible manner :) And thanks for your reply, it's really helpful! I...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2021
7 points

How do I recover from fear of stuttering when somebody asks me a question?

How do I recover from fear of stuttering when somebody asks me a question? This situation always stresses me out. Whenever a teacher asks a question to me, my body parts suddenly started shivering, th...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
2 points

English is my native language, so I took Spanish in high school and loved it. Unfortunately, my stutter is much worse when speaking other languages, especially words that begin with vowels. My anxiety...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

How do you guys deal with talking with someone stranger?

How do you guys deal with talking with someone stranger? Hello guys, I have been stuttering since 3 or 4 years now I am 19. How do you guys deal with anxiety when you try to talk or ask something with...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2021
30 points

Whole class laughed at me today.

Whole class laughed at me today. I stuttered a bit when the teacher asked me a question, and then some people from my class started mocking me. The teacher laughed at me too, nearly the whole class ac...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
2 points

If I'm outside I just try to fixate my eye contact onto something else to help ease my mind, such as looking up a bit and staring into the clouds. It doesn't fully get rid of my stutter/blocks, but it...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
34 points

I think what most people don't realise is that we stutterers are already as harsh and critical on ourselves on why we aren't pronouncing words or speaking up for ourselves fluently, so we don't need t...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

thank you for giving me some advice! and my teacher is the only one that will see my speech (hopefully) i am just nervous because what if she won't understand my situation and scold me for it 😅 i rea...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
1 points

Thank you. I have wondered if talking about it would actually help to make my speech more fluent, as my stutter is definitely worse when I am nervous....

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postr/StutterMar 1, 2021
3 points

Interview/phone calls

Interview/phone calls Hi everyone, Currently getting interviews for a finance summer internship and I realize I stutter more than ever on the phone (especially interviews) and I experience heavy blo...

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Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 1, 2021
3 points

Job and stutter(college)

Job and stutter(college) I’m 18, senior in high school. Don’t know what to do after high school. Intimidate to go to college because of my stutter. I was actually hoping for Job that I could work from...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2021
1 points

I’m 18, senior in high school. Don’t know what to do after high school. Intimidate to go to college because of my stutter. I was actually hoping for Joh that I could work from home and well paid(I wan...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career