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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2019
3 points

It’s Christmas your drinking having fun with the fam. Fuck it man. Live life. Take a hold of the stutter by the fucking balls and accept it and embrace it. Most people only laugh at a stutter because ...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2019
2 points

I usually say “Hey you’re my speech brotha!”. This year I met a delivery guy that stutters and I had to let him know I’m a fellow stutterer as I thought he may have had some bad days because of it whi...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2019
2 points

Thanks for ur kind words. After all I have been through, I am trying to become stronger again. It is difficult, but I am trying. Again, I really appercite your comments!...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2019
3 points

I know it sucks. I’ve been there. I have low points, I have high points. Wish I was more fluent, but it is what it is. I have important meetings and the 1st impression is me stuttering! But I keep my ...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2019
12 points

think of: blind people homeless incurable diseases people who live in a war zone it's a long list and ask your self if you could be in their place for a moment. I stutter a lot but I don't give...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
2 points

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I've been trying so hard to reinvent myself and get out of my shell because my future relies on me being outgoing and charismatic, I can't be that if I harbo...

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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2019
1 points

I work retail and my stutter is really bad (blockages, repetitions, drawn out sounds frequently and sometimes multiple times per sentence) yet I have more positive experiences than negative. You can g...

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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2019
1 points

All my life I've been quiet. Even around friends, I became much more shy in my later years of high school as I became more conscious of my voice. Then, I met a boy. He's a pretty standard rich white b...

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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2019
5 points

Don’t go against it. Accept it. Stutter openly and you’ll notice it’s not as stressful....

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commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
2 points

This community is full of us that are frustrated with our lives and the fact that we stutter. However, you can overcome it or dwindle it down to a small impediment. The first piece and most important ...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
1 points

I’ve seen a few comments saying more or less this. But don’t let the stutter define you. Embrace it. As far as people in my life are concerned, it’s just a part of who I am and most people don’t even ...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2019
2 points

That is great advice, thank you so much! >when I'm around people that I KNOW don't give a hoot about my stuttering and isn't visibly bothered by it, I stutter less and less in front of that perso...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2019
2 points

You are a good friend. What you are already doing is a good example of that. Many people think they are helping when finishing sentences, and I honestly can't blame them for doing so. For the most par...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2019
2 points

Man , honestly I’m not like a depressed/anxiety type of person , like I’ve embraced my stutter but just recently it’s gone down hill, like knowing I stutter I don’t stutter you feel...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2019
2 points

It sucks man. All I can say is the right people are out there. My wife doesn't give two shits about my stutter and she went from the person I stutter most around when we first started dating to now wh...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
1 points

I completely understand, I spent so long being depressed and questioning why I was born like this that ending it seems like such an easy way to end how alone I feel inside. Only 1% of the entire world...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
3 points

Thanks! Maintain the confidence? Well, in that particular instance I’m confident in many of the other areas of being a candidate for that position and was well prepared. So I rested on that I suppose....

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
2 points

All three make sense. I meant it more as a way to grow and accept yourself but your points all make sense. Sorry about that but thanks for your clear reply....

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
2 points

All jokes aside, I really understand where you are coming from. I firmly believe life is suffering in many ways. However, I think we derive meaning from the suffering we are able to endure. Try envisi...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
2 points

Doesnt matter what others think or feel. Its about how you feel about your stutter. If it bothers you it can only help you with how ya see and experience your stutter....

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