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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2021
17 points

I was in your shoes. My solution: I asked friends, neighbors, and the occasional relative to do a mock interview with me. I practiced, and practiced and practiced until I was desensitized to th...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2021
2 points

Hey, I can definitely feel your pain. Every time I have to say something I always have to do a mini rehearsal. It's really exhausting stressing on every word before you say it. Here's something you c...

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Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2021
1 points

This is probably not a sustainable way if you have to do public speaking on a regular basis/have to do it on the fly, but what has worked for me throughout university was to prepare scripts that "flow...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2021
4 points

I'm taking speech therapy currently on my stutter but my therapist gave valuable advice that although stuttering may not completely go away, at least you can change your mindset on it. He suggested to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2021
3 points

Actually no, I’m quite the opposite. I’m more confident during prepared speeches, so my stuttering drastically decreases. But on the flip side......

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Preparation & RehearsalSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2021
2 points

Thanks for your reply :). I know disclosing your stutter is a very personal decision and a hard one. Regarding people in general, you can take your time and start with the people you are closest with ...

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Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2021
1 points

Wonderful post! I can relate to almost everything you said (except the part you mentioned that you almost forgot about your stutter) and I’m really inspired by your story. Being in the second year of ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
2 points

Practice interviewing with people you're comfortable with, and then practice with strangers. I usually practice presentations with english tutor in sites like Verbling. I tell the tutor that I've stut...

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Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
18 points

When I read your message it felt very similar to my own experience, so I had to reply. What I have been doing lately and did in my last interview was come out and explain that I stutter at the first ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 17, 2021
36 points

Stuttering during interviews

Stuttering during interviews I would say I have a “mild” stutter. Most of the time, I can speak fine but it does occasionally rear its ugly head. Its like my brain wont let me say the word and I stumb...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
2 points

I think the script isn't the best idea. I stutter more when reading something. Why don't you make a list with bullet points just as a reminder of what you want to talk about and go from there. And the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

An editing program will let you do multiple takes of the script and then stitch the best ones together afterwards, to better suit your desired presentation....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2021
5 points

someone told me to keep rehearsing the 'wins' in your mind over and over, and forget any 'defeats', so to speak....

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Preparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

Did something change in your Junior year? Did you stop/start a medication or something cause you to become more stressed? This may sound dumb but practice saying your name different ways and see wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
2 points

If you want to do the presentation, tell to your professor that you really want to do it, and if they say no, make them feel that it's discrimination, they should feel bad for it. The tip that helped...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJan 5, 2021
100 points

I wrote my personal essay for college about my stutter, and now that I’ve been accepted, I figured you guys may want to read it too.

I wrote my personal essay for college about my stutter, and now that I’ve been accepted, I figured you guys may want to read it too. Have you ever thought about articulating the word "debacle", or con...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
1 points

Those are definitely my main focuses right now. I would say my self esteem is at its lowest when I go out with my friends or boyfriend. It sucks when everyone is able to just freely conversate or put ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2021
1 points

First of all,sincere thanks for your willingness to help.I think it escalates when talking to ,,authority,, figures,but I think it has evolved into a universal problem at this point,even in-person con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalStress & Fight/FlightPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2021
3 points

Just a quick video about a job I did where I was a marshal for Laser Quest. Basically a game of laser tag and I, as the Marshal had to explain how to play to the audience/players about to go in. I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2021
1 points

Mixed with my stutter and anxiety on the phone, I have to rehearse or even write a script of sentences I need to say for professional phone calls or helplines. However if I know the person well, gami...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Preparation & RehearsalSeeking Therapy