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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2018
1 points

Well, now that you know how that employer responds...do you really want to work for someone like that? If it's fast food, just go to the next one. You don't necessarily need to be working storefront...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2018
8 points

My kid has all three. First letter repetition is his most common. The block sucks because the listener isn’t sure how to respond and their reaction adds to the stress. So it’s the awkward pause, the...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Repetitions & ProlongationsBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2018
2 points

21 years old Italian stutterer here, been one since 6-7 years old. It's true, you probably can't get rid of stuttering completely, but you can improve, build up confidence and silence your thoughts a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2018
1 points

What if none of that happens? What if none of that matters? What if you gain something positive from it? What if you never try and miss out on it?...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

You go in with a growth mindset. The first interview (and probably a few afterwards) you do will probably be your worst, but take that experience and juice all the information from it. Mentally prep...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

Someone who does not have the patience to listen to what you have to say is simply not worth your time. Don't evaluate your performance based on other people's response. I have learnt to be confiden...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

You need to get on that, I think. Instead of carrying it around on your own, communicate with people about it. You need to have some positive experience in this regard - instead of the negative you've...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

Yes, there is an expectation to speak properly, but not fluently. I have done some interviews for internships. For my last internship my employer had to choose between me and 9 other candidates. We al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2018
1 points

So your not the sexiest thing on two legs. that's OK. as for being broke and exercising you don't need to go the gym to work out. Your face might not be the prettiest in the world neither is mine, but...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2018
1 points

What do you do? That's a hard one. find things you like about yourself and improve them. I found improving aspects of myself I liked increased my confidence which translated to increased fluency....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2018
1 points

Thanks for replying. Yeah because I wanted 2018 to be good - better than last year. I wanted some change to happen or things to look up and although it's early, time is wasting. I'm not getting younge...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2018
3 points

Sounds like you've had a rough week. I remember a job interview I had for a tech support help desk job, answering phones and fixing peoples problems I had recently completed my Diploma in IT which inc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2018
1 points

I'm sure you will, Stay positive and work hard on improving yourself even if this means putting yourself in uncomfortable situations and hope for the best ! ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2018
1 points

hey, I'm not mad at my younger self, actually I don't think I would react differently today. I'm just mad at the fact that I could have had a better life. Today, I'm trying to change, I know I need to...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2018
1 points

I’m not a PWS so my comment is more about the emotions than the stutter. You can redefine yourself. You can change the narrative of who you are and you can reframe events/ conditions Just beca...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
4 points

Hey! I was in the same boat recently. I went to literally just one speech therapy session and it changed everything for me. The therapist I went to (Vivian Sisskin, read her method or listen to her ...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
3 points

For me a change happened when I realized I really had to make a change to live life to the fullest. For me that meant putting myself in uncomfortable and challaning situations. Picking up the phone an...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
1 points

I actually haven’t been asked about it. Commented not so much either. Most of the time people catch on without asking questions or anything. If what you want to do involves being outgoing, I’d say g...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
3 points

really awesome post, you got the right attitude 100% ;-D i'll try to do this challenge, and i'll check out the discord thing, too!...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
1 points

I hope today is a better day. Is there any way you can get some info from the Stutter Foundation to give to your boss? They have pamphlets we download to explain and to teach people to hold eye cont...

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