You go in with a growth mindset. The first interview (and probably a few afterwards) you do will probably be your worst, but take that experience and juice all the information from it. Mentally prepare all the possible responses so there won't be any "surprising questions" then focus on the key ideas you want to communicate. Don't spill everything out all at once, instead form a dialogue, get the main idea out and if they ask follow up questions then you can expand on things. And at the end of the interview ask for feedback. If you are anxious or insecure it shows. Employers usually already know what they are looking for and an interview is just to see if there is a fit or not. Don't look, don't search, instead, wait. Set your standards and let your man raise himself to that standard. While you wait, work on yourself, volunteer, do recreational activities, improve your physical and mental health, do acts of charity, work on self-image and self-worth, shame resilience, wholesome living. You do this not for other people but rather because you want to recreate yourself into something greater. It's a life long journey but you will know when you've found your man when you glance to the side and see him running the journey as well. It is necessary. That is your goal, stare at yourself in the mirror every morning for 10 seconds and tell what you see to beware because you are on a journey of self-improvement and what you see is not going to last because a better you is coming.