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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
5 points

I totally understand how you’re feeling. For me, college started to get easier once I accepted my stutter, was open about it, and tried not to care too much. It definitely is hard to do this, but I ac...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
0 points

I conduct a facebook group with 750 people for the last 2 years and gathering information about their progress after applying my method. Accepting your stutter is the first step. If I stutter and ca...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
1 points

You stutter because you stutter. It's a thing that some people have. It's not because of something you're doing wrong. It's just a thing. - Stutter is just... stutter. It's not doing anything to you...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
7 points

Rewarding. Even though you stutter, being able to provide valuable information that helps the other person on the phone will make you feel better about your stutter. I do a little technical support at...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
3 points

Made me more personable and understanding of others. It hasn’t been all bad; it’s helped me grow into the person that I am now, which has been pretty worthwhile, honestly. I definitely hated it when I...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
6 points

I posted this a long time ago and I think it will apply to you as well. Even after all that time stuttering hasn't been an issue in my life anymore. ''The way I used to fix my stutter, and especially...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
1 points

u might find this unbelievable but people don't care if we stutter or not. If they like u they'll like u no matter what. Period. Also, you don't stutter cuz ur self confidence is low tho, thats not w...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
3 points

My boyfriend of 2.5 years has said multiple times that he doesnt mind the stutter and thinks it's cute. Also, a coworker has told me that it is an "endearing quality". But I wont sugar coat it, s...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
5 points

This was me shortly after college. Life is so much better not caring what others think about how I talk....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

bro i gotta be honest with u girls always say my stutter is cute so i got no complaints 😆...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
0 points

i feel that sometimes. you really just gotta say fuck it and not care about your stutter. i have a stutter and i try not to let it get in the way of the way i want to live my life, but ofc some days a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
3 points

Accept yourself. That will make you less self conscious when you stutter. That will then up your confidence and you’ll be ok with your stutter. also go see the your beautiful stutter documentary. That...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

Hi Bastian, am Fasel from North Africa. I am sorry that you have recognized that you are a stutterer. I know it is a living hell when it comes to communicating with ppl. For me, I knew that I stutt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
20 points

know that people like you for you. they dont care you stammer. assholes make fun of people for every reason; short, fat, stammer, voice crack, take your pick. my father has a stammer. i dont hear it ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
23 points

Not give a fuck. (Not possible for me. It’s also not possible for me not to stutter so yah. )...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

I am very happily married for 25 years now. I have 2 children and I am just getting ready to resume my career in physical therapy. I have never tried to hide my stutter. I tell people I stutter a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

My boyfriend of three years has never minded my stutter, and when we first met it didn’t bother him at all. He helps me order things when he knows I’m having a hard time or I give him the “help me” lo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

Ignore those who laugh at you, they have their own demons to sort out. Just know that YOU ARE AWESOME!!...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

Thanks for sharing your experience, and I hope to reache that state of acceptance and confidence. Another thing is where I live, the majority of ppl make fun of anyone who stutters. They aren't self...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
3 points

I know exactly how you feel. I was pre-law and my stutter took control and I switched majors from pre-law to Psychology. At 40, I stopped fighting my stutter and released the anger, shame and guil...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment+3 more