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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

Then they're not worth your time. Cliche, but it truly is not a reflection of you, but of them. Think of it as an asshole-meter. They're not people you want to be around anyway....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

I have two approaches: A) ask people in front of others why they hate disabled people. Public shaming is a very powerful tool. B) make joking comments like: did I stutter? It makes it more normali...

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postr/StutterApr 20, 2020
1 points

Never been mocked or made fun of to my face..Why are your stories so different?

Never been mocked or made fun of to my face..Why are your stories so different? Am I lucky? Not sure. I'm a guy and growing up, I can safely say that I have never been bullied, harassed or tormented b...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

It has affected my dating life in a way that I was scared to talk to girls because of fear of being judged but I've learned to take control I make it no secret that I stutter when I talk to girls I ev...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

Ooh girl I think you could provide some tips of your own! All I do is give them the hairy eyeball and point out that I have a stutter, I was born like this (not entirely true but that’s how they under...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
6 points

I don't mind when it's in good humour. Like if I get stuck on a sound one of my friends literally cannot contain herself but it's not because she's making fun of me. She laughs then others laughs and ...

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Humor & Community ToneAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
1 points

And I stutter but you don't give a shit what people think or if make funny about it, just let them to fuckthemself...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 20, 2020
51 points

Dealing with people who mock you

Dealing with people who mock you Hey! First time posting. So, I (24F) have been a stutterer my whole life, the degree of stutter kind of fluctuates depending on particularly stressful periods and so o...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
3 points

My partner's have been very understanding. Like others have mentioned, the attraction stemmed from other things and the Stutter was never seen as a barrier to relationships. I was in an eight year r...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
1 points

omg hun i feel you, but don’t ever avoid trying! my stutter is fairly severe too (which has been painfully pointed out by a lot of people on campus) and it tends to get worse as i get older. anyway, i...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
4 points

Affected? I would be lying if I said it didn't. Being more outgoing would definitely help there. But I met a lot of people that don't really care. As long as you do not give the impression that you ne...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
1 points

I feel you dude. Not sure how old you are, but I'm 29 and whilst my stutter isn't terrible, when I hit a block on something like my surname or a food order it's painful. But then a few years ago I pos...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

What i always do when i meet someone i am interested in, i tell them i stutter and what it is. And also that they should keep eye contact and wait when i am stuttering. All my friends barely notice it...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
-1 points

Can confirm, my gf is a 10/10 and has never had an issue with my stutter....

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
11 points

Rule 1: learn to love yourself Everything else will come after you achieve this. Personally as a 20M with a mild stutter (was worst when I was younger) all I've gotta say is; learn to love yourself ...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

Being aware of your self worth makes the healthiest foundation for your life. I’ve dealt with low self esteem during my college years and psychotherapy helped me the most. I was much more aware of my ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
20 points

There was this girl at work who rly liked me and she thought my stutter was cute. Imo if they are already attracted to you for other reasons (looks, personality, activities ur involved in) then ur stu...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
2 points

There's no cure. Even people who don't stutter very much any more are still people who stutter. It's part of who you are....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
2 points

I’m almost 30, and I’ve accepted my stutter (though it’s not like I had a choice). I have a particularly severe stutter that’s impossible to hide (takes me like a minute to say 2-4 words) and speech t...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
1 points

I know how you feel, but how often have you just admitted to others that you have a stutter when you're speaking ad get stuck on a word? In my experience people find the honestly endearing more than ...

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