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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
1 points

I tend to stutter less in other languages. I'm french and speak spanish and english. I almost never stutter in those languages, even when I lived in a spanish-speaking country and speak it way more th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
4 points

I’ve been married to my wife for over ten years and we dated for 5 before that and she never knew I had a stutter until I brought it up in therapy. She didn’t believe me at first and thought I was usi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
14 points

I speak four languages and I stutter in all of them. Although, I’d have to say that I stutter the most in my mother tongue which is Polish, and the least in English. The speech fluency varies and it’s...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterSep 14, 2024
64 points

A METHOD THAT WORKED FOR ME

A METHOD THAT WORKED FOR ME Its been a year since my post, and just had a chance of reading it again. I think there was more that helped me over my stuttering and I would like to share in. Again, I am...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Mindset shiftAnticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2024
16 points

[On Reddit Mobile App, ignore formatting!] Hey, Hi! Recently jumped into my own speech therapy journey and wanted to offer some insights and advice! A bit of context, I work as a risk consultant wh...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2024
0 points

Not for me personally. My approach is to change my mindset. I noticed that I don’t stutter when I’m alone, but only when people are around. So in my case it means it’s a mental thing, not a physical t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2024
3 points

The fact that alcohol helps you shows that you have the potential to speak more fluently. Alcohol seems to make you more carefree and helps to keep you calm. You are probably holding yourself back b...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Stress & Fight/FlightHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2024
4 points

It’s about mindset. Have you noticed that when you talk to yourself being alone, you probably don’t stutter. It means you don’t have physical problem, it’s only mental. This “mental problem “ activat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
postr/StutterSep 10, 2024
9 points

Deliberately causing silence — technique for getting past blocks

Deliberately causing silence — technique for getting past blocks Guys this is an amazing speech technique and I just want everyone to know about it. This post may be long but stay with me please. S...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
5 points

Thank you for your comment, but I’m okay my stutter. I’ve grown a healthy relationship with it :) By fluent, I mean where many people that I regularly converse with don’t even notice I have a stutter...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterSep 9, 2024
16 points

People who gained (some level) of fluency, what are some things that you do?

People who gained (some level) of fluency, what are some things that you do? I am someone who has gained fluency. One of the things that I didn’t realize I do is I choose how I say things by my word c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
0 points

Don't take it as a pain, it is valid technique, because of consequences, we made a habit of running away from speaking, by accepting stuttering as a part of our speech, we starts speaking without fear...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
0 points

Be upfront , that should be in the first handful of things about yourself you reveal...not THE FIRST, but I find if someone is expecting it they won't think you're on crack or something. If you are yo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2024
0 points

You took the words straight out of my mouth. I’m only 28, but when I look back on my teenage years and early twenties, I’m amazed/depressed by how I’ve let stuttering shape every aspect of my life(esp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2024
1 points

I truthfully just stopped caring about it, tbh I never really did. I’m very rarely embarrassed about it if it all. I stutter all the time and I almost never address it or talk about it unless it natur...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2024
0 points

Honestly I belive that associating that medication with the thing that magically makes your speech normal got to have a big fingerprint on your mental. I'm a stuttered as well, I didnt find my magical...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helpful Med OutcomesHarmful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterSep 8, 2024
25 points

I feel like i catfish theese girls

I feel like i catfish theese girls I need some reflections! If i may say so myself i am over the averge handsome, i have worked on my pysiqe for years and i feel like i am catfishing theese women when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2024
2 points

ProTip: it can be hard to make yourself do this but it totally helps me when I start spiraling during the day. Set up and interaction. Like, think of something to go ask a coworker. Choose your word b...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
3 points

Interesting I have thought about this exact thing as well. I actually think that I would have been an extrovert if I did not stutter, but my stutter means that I NEVER speak for 'fun' It has forsure...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

I agree with what you wrote I known that I’ve stuttered since I was a child but it wasn’t much of a problem I wasn’t as insecure about it as I’m now I’m 25 . When I was. 22,23,24 I was dating being my...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation+1 more