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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

Same. I also talk more fluently around my sister and close family than professors and other people and I wish that weren't the case because I'd be more interesting and have more friends if I could jus...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
6 points

My cycle goes like this: get nervous that I will stutter—> stutter more *because* I’m nervous —> develop secondary behaviors because I’m stuttering more —> get self conscious about the second...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

That’s good that you guys get along fine. So you have no resentments or anything? I tend to get along pretty well with him but internally I’m sometimes not having the best experience around him. Well...

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Cycles & RandomnessAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

Talk to your parents. Ask them to get you into professional speech therapy. You might also consider talking to a psychologist as well. Sometimes there is a stigma about psychologists. We all feel de...

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Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

Actually I have had a therapist since before I started stuttering. I’m very thankful for him because he helps me with a lot of general anxieties and with social situations that are a bit confusing for...

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Therapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

Yeah ! One other thing is ;when I am relaxed I don’t care if I stutter or not . So maybe I stutter with friends but notice it . But it doesn’t matter . Will you seek up some professional help ?...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 21, 2021
10 points

A book that helped me: Speak With No Fear

A book that helped me: Speak With No Fear I recently had to interview for an exciting new job opportunity and as a person with a stutter of course I was nervous about my speech. I’m 24 (F) and have fo...

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Advice RequestsFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
2 points

Some of my classmates were weirded out and even ask my teacher if it's okay to wear earphones during my presentation but my teacher paid no mind to them lol 😂 I'm glad that it works for you!...

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
3 points

OMG, I actually thought that I was the only one who's doing this! I've done that a couple of times, when I was doing a presentation in class, when I was introducing myself. I blast on some hype music ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAssistive Devices
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
1 points

I usually find I stutter less when I’m around people I’m more comfortable with but not anyone Specifically...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
5 points

I think so, yes. After years of speech therapy there was only so far that could take me, and I went to a few sessions with a psychologist who specialised in stuttering and speech related anxiety. I go...

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Therapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
3 points

When I was defending mine, before I started I'd asked if people with speech disorders are allowed more time as I feared 20 minutes might not be enough for me. So I guess it was an indirect way of comm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
3 points

Block a lot more when around close family members especially when trying to speak with my grandma (Spanish) which is super frustrating at times. Also at times in the drive thru and phone but not alway...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
1 points

Best thing that helped me is to think about something else when presenting. I’m also a sophomore and I had 10 presentations. Stuttered on all of them but not as much as before. Also this might be hard...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
3 points

This is also I thing I struggled with for a long time and there was one thing that kept telling myself until I actually believed it “Nobody will remember or even cares and if they do judge you screw...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
2 points

Thank you! I hope it will only be better after I finally graduate from high school this year. Less pressure and stuff. I feel like people my age are more judgemental...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
1 points

Hello, 1. Get a quality night of sleep in beforehand (standard 8 hours) 2. Practice what you are going to say repeatedly beforehand 3. Accept that you probably will stutter 4. Meditate, or do anythi...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
5 points

41 here. Hang in there. It is SO tough and anxiety-filled at your age. It will improve and you won't think about it as much. I know that doesn't magically make things better but speech therapy and for...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
3 points

Yes, do it! I have always had easier times speaking publicly when I’ve advertised beforehand than not. It eases the pressure to be fluent. Good luck!...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 20, 2021
3 points

Any Dating/ making friends tips?

Any Dating/ making friends tips? Hey guys, I’m 24 and I’m a very likable person as I’m told and experienced but when it comes to talking to women or trying to make friends I freeze up and talk myself ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging