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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
3 points

I know it’s so annoying. What’s even more annoying is that this stutter has appeared randomly and is a psychological issue. I only stutter when I think that I will stutter and there are occasions wher...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
16 points

Talking to girls is way harder than a software interview. As long as you have grinded Leetcode you should be fine....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
1 points

I am currently taking 40mg/day Citalopram (in the morning) to help with my stutter-related anxiety, but I'm also prescribed 5mg x 3/day Diazepam for the aforementioned anxiety. Unfortunately I've seen...

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Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
20 points

It shouldn't be. The only real hurdle will be maintaining confidence in your interview. So don't be deterred, I stuttered severely in my engineering interview and got the shop regardless....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 15, 2021
30 points

Is it very hard to get a job as a software engineer if i have stutter.

Is it very hard to get a job as a software engineer if i have stutter. I'm currently 22 , I'm feeling do lonely and anxious because still i have written many exams but i didn't crack any interview. Pl...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
8 points

I agree with this, just letting them know your happy to accommodate can take a lot of the tension out of the situation. letting them know in advance is very helpful so they don't overstress themselves...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
18 points

Not a whole lot. Putting a stutterer 'at ease' would be one hell of a trick ;) Don't interrupt them. Treat them like anyone else. Many posts in this sub are people who express how anxious they are a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
6 points

You're stressed because you're motivated. Put that stress to work, and spend some time practicing. I would make eye contact with myself in the mirror and say my name with my hand outreached for a hand...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 14, 2021
21 points

Oh man I’m so stressed

Oh man I’m so stressed Most of my best friends have all moved away to college in the past year and I’ve been feeling really alone. I have a few nights out planned in the next few weeks, cause I gotta ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
postr/StutterNov 14, 2021
8 points

Seeking Participants with Video Conferencing Anxiety

Seeking Participants with Video Conferencing Anxiety A study is being completed in order to investigate the usefulness of a video program for the treatment of anxiety experienced during video conferen...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2021
2 points

Disclose it to them! It's unfortunate that stuttering is always stereotyped with just being anxious when 9 times out of 10, if I'm with a friend who makes me feel comfortable, I end up stuttering but ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2021
8 points

What two neuropsychologists told me is that maybe both, left and right side of the brain is developed at the same stage (usually, one is more developed) and so the brain is faster and tongue is slower...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2021
2 points

Maybe not all of them but I'm one of those who experienced it. I was bullied when I was in elementary school and it was traumatizing for me. It was math class and we were told to read the questions al...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 12, 2021
20 points

To tell potential employers or not to tell them

To tell potential employers or not to tell them I am a long time reader of this group, but this is my first time posting. I am 50 and female and I have scattered my whole life. Therapy and the meth...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2021
1 points

I never did. Don’t know the real reason behind this but I was nice to everyone even in tense situations, I feel I established a strong enough presence in my school to garner respect from my peers. Dur...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 12, 2021
6 points

(Vent) I’m totally fucked, aren’t I?

(Vent) I’m totally fucked, aren’t I? When I was 17 I got it in my head that I was 100% capable of overcoming my stutter in a couple years so I applied to do a Law degree, the single most unsuited thin...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2021
1 points

Same guys. Been this way since I can remember. What will finally help us? A non judgemental person at the other end always helps. But for the most part it’s game over. It’s ridiculous that my first im...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2021
2 points

Yeah they certainly care and I appreciate that. It’s just when this is brought up to me I become more aware and stressed if/how much I will stutter when I speak, espically to them. I think my stutte...

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postr/StutterNov 11, 2021
37 points

My boss and HR manager mentioned my stutter to me and offered me support

My boss and HR manager mentioned my stutter to me and offered me support Hi all, I work in a big firm and despite my stutter I have acquired a successful carrier. My work requires a lot of communica...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2021
1 points

Obviously depends on the severity but it really feels worse when you're a kid/teen as you have so much social pressure I've never had any problems from it as an adult in work even though it is still ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career