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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
6 points

It took me until age 30 to figure out what your son has! It's all about having the right attitude and highlighting your good qualities to people. If they don't love or accept you for your proud good s...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
4 points

That’s the thing- the people who do make comments about his stuttering and weight are generally shamed by others. Times have certainly changed and this generation does not accept any BS...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
7 points

Nailed it mate. Good on your son, it’s what helped me. Who gives a fat fuck? If you don’t care, they generally won’t. And the ones who do get shamed pretty god damn quick. Good for your son learning t...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
3 points

A philosophy can be a jedi mind trick. Especially stoicism A different view often is the determining factor in a response and how it allows us to view stuttering and our position is especially clea...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
19 points

I’m not going to diminish how you’re feeling because your feelings are valid. But I’ll give my son’s experience. 15 years old and a very significant stutter. He will occasionally get through a few sen...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
8 points

Man, I'm in the same place you are. It's okay dude, don't be afraid and just put yourself out there or you're going to have to live with regret. It's better to try and fail than to not try at all....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
3 points

Own it . Tell them first you stutter then try and say the words . Use the fact that they know your stutter to work on techniques take as long as you need they are giving you an enviorment to practice...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
2 points

I have this gift of stuttering but I'll gladly take yours. But that's not real people cant give it away or take it we are born with it . There is no life ruined because this is our life ... it's not l...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
1 points

Excellent post Thank You! Why are there such negative people here ??? You are right many people engage in " cry culture " like you mentioned instead of hard work ....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
1 points

Ahh that defeatest attitude ! For sure I'll get some flack from people here to moan versus work hard . Please elaborate, I have stuttered 36 years I dont leave because some stranger types it on the ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
3 points

Excellent , when you look back on it you understand the struggle but you have lived eniugh to see the key has always been you . Just beautiful...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2020
0 points

Stuttering is not a disability unless you let it be

Stuttering is not a disability unless you let it be I cant say my name . I cant order what I want sometimes That's how I felt ... I felt disabled The word CANT is self decided . But I've learned t...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
3 points

Ty it's amazing the amt of people who have dwn voted it . I got an message from someone saying they feel it attacks their safe space. Haha . Victimization narrative vs ownership narrative...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2020
6 points

When i was younger say 14-15 and some students used to make fun of me I used think exactly this "Why me God".I thought that nobody will give me job, no dating, no marriage( why would anyone date someo...

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postr/StutterSep 23, 2020
28 points

How age reflect your views on your stutter.

How age reflect your views on your stutter. I am 36 and like many of you have been stuttering since I remember speaking actual sentences . My ideas about my stuttering and my feeling and attitude towa...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2020
1 points

Focusing on your strong points and also exposing your stutter to fellow teammates. I like it...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2020
1 points

We can't help you with "temporary" stuff, both because we're not professionals, and also because "temporary stuff" doesn't really exist. When you substitute words, you avoid stuttering likelihoods. Y...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2020
4 points

The hardest thing to start living and to change your life is to fully accept it, fully embrace it from there you can change something. But without the force of truth pushing you forward you have nothi...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2020
3 points

Ugh that sucks. I totally know what you mean. It bugs me too. But I can’t believe that I am not being my best self. I don’t want to be trapped by stuttering anymore. I try to capitalize on the little ...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2020
4 points

lmao yes definitely. The most hilarious story is when I had to do a presentation and stuttered at the first word and I just burst out laughing. Everyone was like what the fuck but they laughed along a...

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