When i was younger say 14-15 and some students used to make fun of me I used think exactly this "Why me God".I thought that nobody will give me job, no dating, no marriage( why would anyone date someone who stammers), I restricted myself from talking to classmates so they won't find out. But after I came to college I started speaking more and by the time I was graduating my thought process change because I was able to make such good friends and I know that didn't care that I stammer and I had job on my hand as well so thinking changed about job too though I still won't talk openly about my stammering with boys(I was able to do with girls). After doing job for 2 years I am again in college for post graduate and I can easily tell people that I stammer(girl and boy) and this is something I would have never ever done in college and school. This is also because I know that they are adults now. Can't say anything about dating and marriage as it is still to be explored. So that's how my thinking is changing over the years.