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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
1 points

Best thing I read in a while. Congratulations on achieving this stage! I have this mindset but find it hard to achieve...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
10 points

Hey, good on you on starting therapy, good luck. As of now I did not achieve fluency, especially during stressful situations, but I am doing much better. Mostly because I feel less ashamed about my st...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
3 points

To be fair, I haven't practiced in a while, maybe 2 months, so my lack of progress is at least partially attributable to me being lazy/apathetic. I'll definitely start practicing again because I'd rat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
2 points

I feel bro, and definitely felt that way at 16. The days that you are totally free from stuttering, how often are you thinking about it? I genuinely think the best way to go about it is to just stop c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2024
1 points

No I think the point is that they don't bring it up a ton. Oz teaches him to not gaf and to demand respect....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
4 points

Agree with Cool brick. You dont know God's(or destiny's) plans. Iam not entirely agnostic but Iam somewhere on the spectrum. We(or Phyiscs ) doesn't yet understand the complete nature of reality. So ...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
2 points

It’s easier to just not believe in God lol. Why can’t you just be like, ok I got dealt this shitty hand. Other people get dealt different kinds of shitty hands. It just is what it is, it doesn’t requi...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
9 points

My being ok with my stuttering is part of a larger story: loving myself, all of myself, not just my stutter. It’s not an end point. It’s a constant effort. Sure, there are still days when I will avoid...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
3 points

I’m not religious but life is how you make it regardless of the cards “god” dealt you. If you want it to be hell on earth it can be or you can make it heaven. It ultimately depends on the perspective ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2024
1 points

I was stuttering bad to my 30s. And agree on last comment. Self improvement. Fake it till you make it. Watch vids and read books on making you better. And gradually you will grow and be confident. And...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
6 points

Hey there, I'm also 21. It's a painstakingly slow process and requires a lot of self reflection. I'm not all the way there myself, but in the past couple of years I've gone from being nearly mute when...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
23 points

>The only other alternative is to look and sound stupid saying it. Try it out. Maybe you won't look at stupid as you feel you do...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
1 points

Just gotta practice talking in front of people. Trial and error. It might suck initially but you gotta push thru. Don't avoid it. Tackle it head on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2024
4 points

At a certain point for me I was just done living in fear of what other people thought. And the truth is most people don’t give a shit about your stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 24, 2024
42 points

Finally Hired !

Finally Hired ! I’m sure some of you remember my post from a while or so back. Now I am glad to say that I am finishing my first two weeks at my new role :) I have put in tremendous work behind the sc...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 24, 2024
30 points

Today was awesome

Today was awesome Best “speaking day” in a while. Had 3 important meetings and I was talking nonstop. I kept thinking what’s going on man. Am I dreaming hahaha.😆 Kept talking about project upda...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Personal StoriesMindset shiftHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2024
1 points

Yeah it's all in our mind our stammering cannot defeat us will not let it defeat us...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 23, 2024
9 points

I gave a talk called “Refactoring Fear” on my journey working with my stutter

I gave a talk called “Refactoring Fear” on my journey working with my stutter I gave this Closing Keynote talk SwiftLeeds 2024 which is a Swift and iOS developer conference. I talked about my struggl...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Personal StoriesMindset shiftPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

This is how I think about it: We have trauma because of past experiences, so we stutter as we relate to them. We basically think that the next situation will be the same as the last one - this is a p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

These two points really provoked something in me, that made me less nervous about my presentation today and my sir told "even with stammering he is coming up confidently to take presentation" but some...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift