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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2024
12 points

Sometimes you may just have to write it down or type it out on the phone and have them read it. It might make the situation a little less stressful....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

I agree, but I stutter when I'm nervous and something as simple as meeting a person becomes difficult or impossible. But for me, the fact that no one cares what my name is helps. At least in my cou...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 21, 2024
19 points

Struggling mentally

Struggling mentally I am 27 year old man with a stutter, which I have had since the age of 6. I am ashamed to admit, I am nearly 30 and I still have not come to terms with this speech disorder. I can...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
3 points

Its not an issue as long as you can get your point across and are able to do what you want...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

Before I learned some very effective exercises and new habits, I would have given up a limb in exchange for ability to communicate effectively....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Quality of LifeFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
1 points

ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) is a psychotherapy, in which stutterers learn to accept their unhelpful thoughts and feelings rather than fighting or feeling guilty for them. ACT is popular fo...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
1 points

ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) is a psychotherapy, in which stutterers learn to accept their unhelpful thoughts and feelings rather than fighting or feeling guilty for them. ACT is popular fo...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
3 points

I am willing up to give up my limbs for effective communication. Its 2024. We don't have to hunt for prey anymore. We need to communicate effectively. Hence its so scary....

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
5 points

Suicidal thoughts are all too relatable, I don’t want to continue being laughed at, isolated or rejected but I have to accept the reality. You are correct about the second last sentence if we never st...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
3 points

A lot of ppl here are totally encumbered their stutter because they *cannot effectively communicate*. In fact, esp if you have a covert stutter based in panic, your listeners will not know what’s goi...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
-1 points

I don’t know. Those of us with four working limbs and the ability to type, listen to music, play video games etc. - we’re pretty lucky. It seems like a lot of people here are totally encumbered by the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
2 points

It's very frustrating having a stutter. Everything is 10x harder. I'm 23 and i had stutter when I was 4 years old. My social skills suffer because of it. It's like having a barrier or armor, you close...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
3 points

I feel you bro, stuttering has robbed me from many experiences in life, job opportunities, education, friendships, relationships, and the guaranteed embarrassment at family gatherings, stuttering is v...

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Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
5 points

You can learn new habits that will give you MUCH more control over your speech. I learned them after I turned 40, and was on the verge of giving up also. While it involves some very uncomfortable w...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
16 points

Wow, it’s relieving to hear that I am not the only one that feels this. I have a mild stutter but it is definitely there and I’ve had some horrendous blocks where my face gets distorted and I can’t fu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
42 points

100% understand you. One of the most painful parts of stuttering is wondering who I could’ve been if God had been a little nicer to me. Maybe I would have a girlfriend. Maybe I would be more confident...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
10 points

new job

new job heyy everyone! so i recently just got a job at Mcdonald’s and im kind of nervous due to my stutter. I’ll probably have to work front counter or back window and i know it involves a lot of tal...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
1 points

Folllowing up. I’m by no means fluent but trying to do the easy onsets and pacing has given me noticeably better results and less fatigue from talking. I still haven’t seen a therapist. Waiting for ap...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

Hey, I recently started using chatgpt Voice Assistant, and I think it's great. It's getting new updates, so it's going to be more natural using it. One thing I liked about it is that I stutter with ch...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
3 points

Hey. I know this might seem ridiculous but start looking into ways to be the happiest and most “successful” version of yourself. For example, eat well, sleep well, read books, journals, get exercise e...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life