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postr/StutterOct 27, 2018
12 points

Stutter getting worse. I'm fighting against impossible odds for wanting a better life.

Stutter getting worse. I'm fighting against impossible odds for wanting a better life. Im 22. I had been a literal shut in for 2.5-3 years and browsed various social anxiety, incel and stuttering foru...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
5 points

I have also had problems stuttering in social situations to the extent that I can't communicate at all, it does make you feel terrible. I know what you mean with sounding like a weirdo, using weird wo...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
3 points

Don't even think about IQ, dude. When I was in my mid-teens (14-15 y/o), I used to think the same. "My IQ is high, because of that my mouth can't sync with my mind" lol. I cringe when I think abou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
1 points

dont beat yourself too much just know you got a community of freaks(people) like you .....way i see it is that stutterers like us have higher IQs and therefore the cruel universe had to short change u...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHumor & Community ToneIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 25, 2018
17 points

Stutter forces me to be an introvert

Stutter forces me to be an introvert When I was a kid and my stutter wasn’t too bad I was very outgoing and happy. I would make a lot of friends I would never hesitate to approach somebody new and I w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
4 points

I stutter more around people I am comfortable with and already know I stutter. I worked on a retail sales floor for 3 years and can talk to strangers like it's nothin' but trying to tell my dad a funn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
5 points

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Some situations definitely drive home how debilitating a stutter can be. Keep your head up. You're more than your stutter. Keep telling yourself that. No matter what...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2018
10 points

Sorry to hear about your situation. I'm not really good at these things but I will try to help you here. First of all, it is really important that you don't let the stutter take control of you. That's...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2018
1 points

Indeed. The impediment was top of mind throughout elementary, high school, college, and graduate school. It was only once I hit my stride in my career that I found I was really able to 'let go'. I ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2018
2 points

The "doing it for attention" narrative eventually died out when it became quite apparent that I was absolutely not doing it for attention. I'm an adult now but this is all behind me. When you have any...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2018
1 points

I think different kinds of therapy helped me a lot to be more aware of my stutter and balance out those highs and lows. For me my fluency is largely dependent on how calm and confident I am in general...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2018
1 points

The truth - for me, at least - is that stuttering is not what holds me back. I'm very shy and quiet and I used to attribute that to the stuttering/blocking, but I know the former came before the latte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2018
1 points

That makes perfect sense. I hate it when people ask my name. It is always a 50/50 chance I will get the word out without anyone noticing my stutter. Whats worse is the times people notice the telltale...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2018
2 points

Mine is not as bad as it used to be. Its barely noticeable. The one thing i notice i have most trouble saying is my name, every other wors i barely pay attention to. But if i had the opportunity to go...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2018
1 points

What is it like being a person who stutters as a slp?? Can you share any advice ?...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Advice RequestsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2018
2 points

Hello. I'd love to chime in here if I could. I think controlling stuttering is definitely an option. However, I think a more liberating option is to focus on speaking smoothly, clearly, calmly and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
postr/StutterOct 22, 2018
1 points

Is anyone here a person who stutters going for speech and language pathology?

Is anyone here a person who stutters going for speech and language pathology? ...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2018
1 points

Same here. I'm 21 and have stuttered since I was a kid. Went into speech therapy for some years. It didn't really help much, but I learned not to let this issue take control of my life. Now, I don't r...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2018
3 points

It honestly feels just like a character trait, a big deal isn’t made out of it and nobody even says the word “stutter” It just seemed really nice and not forced ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2018
2 points

It is part of my identity, and I have 95% gotten past it, now i only stutter when public speaking but normal conversation im smooth as fuck, and it does set me apart, and it does make it more satisfyi...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception