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postr/StutterAug 1, 2018
3 points

Blocking on people's names. Any advice?

Blocking on people's names. Any advice? Hi, I can say certain names fine, but some I just block and can't say them. Names are difficult as I can't substitute a name for another word I can say. Par...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2018
2 points

I am here to tell you, don't be scared. I have worked in hospitality for 8 years now, and I have a stutter. Sometimes I cant even get my words out. But its no issue. I have worked in bars and restau...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2018
1 points

He didn’t really ask for therapy but has been saying he hates his speech and voice for a year now. He still talks a lot, even in public, and has a lot of friends, and I don’t want him to get to the p...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2018
1 points

>Once you get older you realize the stuttering isn't what's holding you back, it's your negativeness towards your speech. "Once you get older you realize the stuttering isn't what's holding you ba...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2018
1 points

Honestly love why I am going into speech pathology. They understand my stutter. I could never see myself doing any other job. That is a huge obstacle and interviews make my speech 1000000x worse, just...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
1 points

i have tried that before..still didn't work.. i have tried psyching myself.. and my tongue gets tied.. I am not giving up though.. i can't afford to as I need a job asap. I am hoping i get past this h...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2018
1 points

I think it depends on the severity of the stutter, but is it possible that you could say up front that you have a slight stutter and when you're nervous (like in interviews) it tends to flare up? For...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterJul 30, 2018
6 points

mid 20's, unemployed and stuttering/stammering

mid 20's, unemployed and stuttering/stammering Has anyone been affected by their stuttering when having interviews? I have a solid educational background and currently completing grad school in busin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2018
1 points

While you are in your junior year, work hard to get those top grades. Join engineering groups. Attend events of all kinds. Don't let one or two nay-sayers get you down. Start putting yourself in sit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2018
1 points

Keep in mind that the education can go in a lot of direction. You could became a pharmacist or researcher, etc. (by just adding a few extra classes). So don't let anything keep you from going to med s...

School & WorkCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerValidation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2018
1 points

Hmmm. Im still in high school , which means i have some time to reconsider my career choice , the one of the many things im afraid of is that i may regret it after becoming a doctor due to not being a...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
postr/StutterJul 26, 2018
7 points

Non English stutterer

Non English stutterer English is not my first language and I have a speech block stutter, so when I travel and have to speak English, this adds up to a disaster, literally the chashier can’t hold his ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2018
2 points

You should always let your employer know that you stutter. Trust me, I've been working for almost 25 years and everything started getting better when I started telling my managers, co-workers, and cli...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2018
2 points

Can I ask how old are you? I felt like this for years, all the way through school. It's really hard. But it does get better. As I got older (I'm in uni now, which is a better environment than school) ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2018
1 points

It’s an interesting dilemma to be sure. Stuttering can indeed be considered a disability but many people who stutter don’t consider themselves disabled. Because the ADA definition of disability is fai...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Access & RightsEmployment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2018
2 points

This reminds me of my younger self. Well, I'm also a shy person, and I did the same: I tried to keep my answers as short and concise as possible. I bombed an interview. Later I thought it was wrong to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2018
1 points

Unless you need special accommodations to perform the job, I would not check the ADA box. The only time I’d consider it, outside of needing special accommodations, would be possibly for an EEO related...

School & Work
Employment & CareerAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2018
2 points

No. I never say yes on the application. Better approach is to mention that you Stutter before the interview....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2018
5 points

No way. Sorry to say it but the job market is extremely competitive and stating you have a disability will put you at a significant disadvantage to others applicants. IMO if you tick you have one fil...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2018
3 points

As a recent graduate searching for jobs, I also have this question! So far I have always clicked "NO", because I feel guilty about listing stuttering as a disability. But I have wondered how it woul...

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Employment & Career