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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
1 points

The strategies can be found here: [https://www.worldstopstuttering.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/WSSACrutchChartREV230308.pdf](https://www.worldstopstuttering.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/WSSACrutc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
2 points

Thank you bro, I appreciate your advice. I’m trying to stop worrying about others’ judgments, and it gives me a great sense of freedom. Even if I stutter, I feel less shame thanks to this mindset. I d...

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Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
postr/StutterNov 25, 2024
56 points

I always thought stuttering was the only thing standing between me and the perfect life and the perfect self I used to imagine in my head.

I always thought stuttering was the only thing standing between me and the perfect life and the perfect self I used to imagine in my head. It isn't. The bad habits and destructive tendencies remain. A...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
11 points

I am also a covert stutterer. It’s basically a person whose main objective in terms of fluency is to hide the fact that they stutter at all and the opposite of stuttering acceptance. This leads to com...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

I'm married now (31) but my stutter certainly didn't slow me down much when I was younger and dating. I would never try to hide it, and maybe even go as far as to make it part of how you introduce y...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

Yeah OP you’re absolutely spot on. I had to dig deep into those core emotional issues if I wanted to stutter less; and it worked....

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Thank you brother. For me, it took a while to realize how deeply ingrained these negative anticipation thoughts truly are. I developed them in early childhood, as I’m sure almost all of us did. For...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
11 points

I used tinder before. I'd always disclose my stutter on Day 1 of talking. Most didn't care. Met one girl on there who didn't care, we connected on 'The Office' Been together 6 years now, married for...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

I think it is possible to relax or slow down actually, it’s just incredibly difficult to actually put it in practice. There’s a difference between practicing keeping your anxiety under control to ove...

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Pretending to be someone else even when saying the same thing has an interesting effect like it's changing what the mind thinks is the scary part and processes something different instead, even if the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
1 points

Guess I found the cheat code! I was working as a preschool teacher when my blocks/stoppages were at their worst. As I was practicing with ways to reduce the blocks, it didn’t seem “odd” when I used ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

Oh no! Think there’s been a misunderstanding, probably due to me poorly communicating my thoughts! The link is my post, so I’d like to fix it, if necessary. I’ll try again - ultimately, looking...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

This is just like the post that sent me to that other author. Rather than engage in the conversation, I see it's easier to just point to something that helped you that you believed in. For one,...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
5 points

But I've been there in high school. It'll get better , get involved with some form of in school or out of school activities, speak out more, and your peers will laugh and crack jokes, but don't take ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2024
3 points

My mum did it once and I was absolutely distraught cos she'd never done it before. Then when I confronted her about it the next day, despite her doing it when my boyfriend was present, she claimed it ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
3 points

It is enraging how much people just attribute stuttering to mechanical and biological causes that cant be changed whereas people have been using successfully the psychological approach for more than 4...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
2 points

You will benefit immensely because it will shift your perspective towards stuttering (as it is mainly psychological) and it goes deep in it. If you have the money you can skip this process and book an...

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Research & ResourcesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
1 points

start by reading john harrison's redefining stuttering book here [https://www.mcguireprogramme.com/wp-content/uploads/Redefining-Stuttering-2011.pdf](https://www.mcguireprogramme.com/wp-content/upload...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
2 points

You and me both man! I’ve been doing IFS for about 2 years now. Life changing therapy combined with EMDR and somatic work! There’s something to be said for how it approaches the mind in a non-patholo...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
3 points

Absolutely. Recently I've been doing some work with Internal Family Systems. There are psychological constructs like exiles - suppressed wounded child aspects, protectors - which reinforce that suppr...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking