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commentr/StutterMay 31, 2022
5 points

More so as a teenager, as a young adult I sometimes forget I stammer until I do lol, I still hate phone calls though which is ironic because when I do stammer on the phone it is usually at the beginni...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 30, 2022
14 points

stuttering and dating

stuttering and dating The last couple of dates I've been the person I was going out with said they thought my stutter was "cute", I don't have the fact that I stutter in my dating profile so they didn...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
4 points

I’m in academia and have presented in a bunch of conferences. I always give them a heads up, but honestly academic culture (STEM at least) is really utilitarian. They only care about my research resul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
9 points

I don’t if the person is in front of me. For the most part I can speak decent but I do stutter occasionally. More so when I get anxious. On the phone I may disclose it if I can’t keep it together and ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
3 points

i could do but I know they will disagree with how i’m seeing it, they will say i’m reading too much into it...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
15 points

Advice

Advice Hello everyone i hope you are all great! I just wanted to speak about something i’m pretty confused on. Does anyone else experience a parent or anyone close to you seeming a little agitated whe...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
10 points

People don’t make eye contact when you talk to them

People don’t make eye contact when you talk to them I don’t know if I’m reading into it too much but I’ve noticed that some people avoid eye contact when they talk with you when they know you shutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
21 points

people can't hear me and i'm always asked to repeat.

people can't hear me and i'm always asked to repeat. I hate my stutter, today when I was in class the teacher asked me to answer the question, so of course I said yes and proceeded to answer. When I a...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
4 points

Let’s not be naive, stuttering is a significant drawback. Speech is after all one of the ways men get women. So if someone stutters dating prospects are diminished. That does not mean they are complet...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
1 points

first of all i stutter and im a guy but im 100% sure that stuttering isnt attractive. Depending on the severity it can definitely be unattractive. You can still have a successful date if you have othe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
4 points

Hey dude. Im gonna drop some knowledge on you here that’s gonna change your life. Seriously. It’s not your stuttering that girls find unattractive, it’s your attitude towards it. More specifically it...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
2 points

Well tbh i got together with a girl and she knew about my stuttering and I’ve asked her she said to me that stuttering wasn’t a big deal for her. So i guess first of all not all girls have same opin...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
10 points

Dude calm down jesus.. it’s not the end of the world. Try spending less time giving a fuck about what people think....

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
4 points

Depending on how bad/consistently you stutter it could be that. Idk how old you are but I’m 25 and ghosting seems like the norm regardless of a stutter. Is it unattractive? My husband finds it adorabl...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
18 points

Ok so first of all I checked your post history and you have only asked this question in the r/AskGirls subreddit not in multiple subreddits like you claim. Secondly, how about asking the girls you ta...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
postr/StutterMay 28, 2022
0 points

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me!

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me! I hate when people ghost me irl or online. I keep asking if stuttering is unattractive a...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
2 points

Thanks for asking :) well this one woman came up to me in awe over my hair but once she asked my name I couldn’t get it out. She slowly put her hand down for me to shake and it was one of the worst fe...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
9 points

We know that we are confident enough for an interview and then we still stutter. That gets a hold on you. Stay strong my friend. I have faced the same....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 27, 2022
54 points

Rough Interview

Rough Interview I had a rough day today and wanted to vent on here. I applied for a role I am overqualified for and even studied the role and company inside out before going in. I explained at the beg...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
2 points

I think you've reached a great level of awareness and you're ready to reach fluency more often. In my opinion what you've realized is that you have more of a social anxiety problem, not so much a stu...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation