commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022

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Hey dude. Im gonna drop some knowledge on you here that’s gonna change your life. Seriously. It’s not your stuttering that girls find unattractive, it’s your attitude towards it. More specifically it’s your insecurity. Look, a lot of us are insecure about our stuttering too, including me. The trick is, don’t show it. Women are attracted to confidence. When I first got into online dating, the very first person I talked to, I was putting off heavy insecurity vibes about stuttering. I was asking the same exact questions you are. She told me straight up, and I’m paraphrasing here, “Im gonna be honest with you. You’re putting off really heavy vibes dude. Just chill.” So that was the end of that conversation. I immediately was cringing at myself and couldn’t hit that block button fast enough. With every girl I talked to after that, I worked on projecting confidence, and only after we had some rapport did I divulge my stuttering. I had a few dates. Met some crazies, got a little crazy myself, all in all had some good life experience in the dating world, and landed up with my wife. And I’m a severe stutterer who hid in his room for six years playing video games! You got this dude! Just keep your attitude straight and you’ll have no problem.

Themes

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment