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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
3 points

Hey, I've been there, I completely understand everything you've written. But do you know what I got from your message? That you don't even give yourself the chance to think that you'll be able to over...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterDec 12, 2024
10 points

How is it going for me!

How is it going for me! Hi I have never posted anything here as far as i remember but I think it's my duty now to write something hopeful and motivating to this overly depressed sub. Im 18 years old n...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
1 points

One of the most important things I tell myself is “If they matter, they won’t care. If they care, they don’t matter.” Wholeheartedly agree!...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
2 points

I think this cannot be said enough, and is perfectly highlighted in your post: 'Victory' is when we're able to express ourselves confidently and freely, regardless of whether we stutter or not. Victor...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/HowIKilledMyStutterDec 10, 2024
1 points

Welcome to the Real Fucking World of Killing Your Stutter

Welcome to the Real Fucking World of Killing Your Stutter Listen up. If you're here, you're probably sick of the bullshit. Sick of the "experts" who never stuttered a day in their life trying to tell ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
6 points

Work on urself. Don’t blame ur stutter. If u become the best Man u can be by working out , dressing well, looking after urself , grinding. U will naturally have better confidence. Ur stutter isn’t ur ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 8, 2024
10 points

What happens if..

What happens if.. If we do everything we want , get nervous still do the things we want. Stutter infront of evryone and get laughed at by evryone, still continue the things we want to do. Doesn't m...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
2 points

It gets better. It's always a challenge, but you get stronger, and you stop caring as much as you do now about people's view of you. You start getting out of your own head as you get older as well and...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
10 points

I'm not going to tell you that it gets better, that cliche is for the birds......what I can tell you is that find a group, either online or in your area and join it.......meet others and help one anot...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2024
0 points

I know the feeling all too well bro i stutter myself u just gotta accept it and forget about it and one day you will overcome it 💪🏼...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2024
1 points

Be kind to yourself—you’re doing your best. Honestly, if you go in tomorrow with an IDGAF attitude, you might feel less stressed, which could help you get out of your own head....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2024
3 points

Then I reframed my thinking to gain better control over myself. Sorry but there are worse ailments out there but those affected by them have a solid attitude to overcome their inhibitions. Harsh but...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2024
2 points

Great work man! I’m 43 and have done similar things over the years that you’ve done and completely agree many of these things you’ve listed absolutely make a difference. Gotta stay positive and prove ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/stutteringDec 4, 2024
2 points

I've had an issue since I was like 5. What really helped me was expanding my vocabulary. Like, I recognize my trouble words before they happen. It's like the game guitar hero or beat saber (or whateve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2024
8 points

Better adjust your mindset. It's a crap way to live. Not saying it's easy to do. But hating your life and stressing is no way to live. You should know that you're wrong about "People who stutter ne...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2024
7 points

College is awesome because you get a chance to reinvent yourself and gather a lot of good and new experiences. There are some really cool beginner activities especially in volunteer work or in art clu...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationFriendships & BelongingMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2024
2 points

If someone denies a reality just to satisfy their own versions of truth, ego or fears, I’d just say say it once and move on. There is really NO need to explain and justify everything to everyone. It’s...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2024
2 points

I think that man's entire strategy here is to exhaust you because he just can't say "oh ok, I was wrong, now I know better". To him it's more important to be in the right than to have an actual, meani...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2024
3 points

Confidence in what? Wherever you're lacking confidence, improve in that area. If you're talking about your disfluency, then do some work there. (Easier said than done, for certain.) IDK you, so I h...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2024
1 points

There are ways to address the emotional component that are available to begin literally within moments of learning about them. Not sure how old you are, but good luck waiting for some neural link de...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation